What is a no- go? What is okay? Lunch with a friend of a different gender. Is this okay if mentioned before hand? Or they don’t have to report? Posting flirty replies on opposite gender socials- ok or no? Texting but not seeing opposite gender friends and exs- yes or no way? Submitted May 25, 2023 at 01:16AM What is a no- go? What is okay?Lunch with a friend of a different gender. Is this okay if mentioned before hand? Or they don’t have to report?Posting flirty replies on opposite gender socials- ok or no?Texting but not seeing opposite gender friends and exs- yes or no way?

if being a virgin is the only reason you want to have sex then don’t! you should only do it when you feel ready and 100% comfortable with it. i know it’s hard getting into the dating scene, but if he’s really a good guy for you then he’ll understand if you don’t feel ready yet May 25, 2023 at 12:06AM

My boyfriend and I were planning to go to the gym and he told me to “look cute and put ur makeup on and hair and stuff so I can show u off” And I’m like put makeup on? Not to say I haven’t to the gym but usually not intentionally. Usually after I like go to work or school and am too lazy to wash my face before the gym How would y’all take this? He said he didn’t meAn if that way but how else am I suppose to take it 🥲 Asking me to look nice vs cover up my face feel like very two different things 🥲 idk if I’m being too dramatic but my feelings are hurt by the request. Also he said I never try to look good for him. Like I do but he doesn’t see me everyday and when he does we are going to work out or I come over his house late and we just lay in bed and watch movies. It’s not like I never look nice it’s just majority of the time we don’t do shit 😭 Not to mention I’m honestly just busy and exhausted and stressed all the time from going school full time. I am also in flight school s...

There’s none near me May 24, 2023 at 11:10PM

I know the feeling dude. I’m 19 and got really lucky with my current bf. He’s not ace but it doesn’t effect our relationship and he’s happy without sex in our relationship. Best of luck to you tho. Ace people are pretty uncommon unfortunately. Try and find some ace spaces. Idk about what that looks like for guys but godspeed to you May 24, 2023 at 11:10PM

Eh, it's worth learning your own body. Go full send and give 'er a shot. If it's a bit icky, you only need to clean up once. Your body is probably still wired to enjoy the mechanical aspect of it and release dopamine into the ol brain. May 24, 2023 at 01:15AM

I (25M) work rotating 12 hour shifts on a three week on and one week off rotation where I swap between days and nights. I've been wanting to get back into the dating scene again, but outside of dating one of my coworkers (non-option because that would be too messy and complicated if things go downhill), I really don't see how to start and maintain a relationship without the time issue coming up constantly. Any advice would be appreciated. I've been single for a couple years now after my last GF split to go jetsetting to the other side of the country so I'm also a little out of practice with flirting or how to approach women. Submitted May 24, 2023 at 01:07AM I (25M) work rotating 12 hour shifts on a three week on and one week off rotation where I swap between days and nights. I've been wanting to get back into the dating scene again, but outside of dating one of my coworkers (non-option because that would be too messy and complicated if things go downhill), I...