More context - she had a serious boyfriend when we met but we had great chemistry. Would have asked her out otherwise. I’m visiting her hometown in a few weeks so thought about her (she doesn’t live there anymore) and was considering reaching out for recommendations to re-ignite the conversation. Is that reasonable or would it come off as ‘creepy’ because I’d be hitting her up out of the blue? Submitted April 09, 2023 at 12:57AM More context - she had a serious boyfriend when we met but we had great chemistry. Would have asked her out otherwise.I’m visiting her hometown in a few weeks so thought about her (she doesn’t live there anymore) and was considering reaching out for recommendations to re-ignite the conversation.Is that reasonable or would it come off as ‘creepy’ because I’d be hitting her up out of the blue?

Multiple rounds. 1 round and done. That’s that. April 09, 2023 at 12:19AM

Yeah. My friends know. Most of them do, at least. Some don't know because "hi I'm asexual" doesnt go well in a conversation tbh April 09, 2023 at 12:16AM

Hey guys, So basically I had a little crush on this girl in my class this semester. Last week I randomly added her on Instagram and a couple days later I started messaging her (acting like I’m confused about class) I couldn’t really get a feel for anything. At certain points I thought she wasn’t into it and others she seemed really into it. My class class with her is Wednesday where I said I’d see her when I ended the convo. Do you think I chills ask her out then or wait it out or possibly not do it ever. Would appreciate some opinions. Submitted April 09, 2023 at 12:17AM Hey guys,So basically I had a little crush on this girl in my class this semester. Last week I randomly added her on Instagram and a couple days later I started messaging her (acting like I’m confused about class) I couldn’t really get a feel for anything. At certain points I thought she wasn’t into it and others she seemed really into it. My class class with her is Wednesday where I said I’d see her when I en...

Yup! Right hand, middle finger. It's like a calling card for other aces lol April 08, 2023 at 11:11PM

Hey everyone. I started dating and seeing a woman at my college in mid February. We had amazing dates and she was hot and heavy into me. Always texted, called and wanted to see me. She even met my family. She recently started a divorce process from her military husband. I didn’t care and continued seeing her. She then suddenly backed away and became cold. Didn’t want to kiss and see me anymore except to talk for a half hour in between class. She eventually told me she wanted to be alone and not want anything more than platonic and felt things were moving towards a relationship. I’m devastated. What should I do? Submitted April 08, 2023 at 01:14AM Hey everyone. I started dating and seeing a woman at my college in mid February. We had amazing dates and she was hot and heavy into me. Always texted, called and wanted to see me. She even met my family.She recently started a divorce process from her military husband. I didn’t care and continued seeing her.She then suddenly backed a...

i (22f) have reached a point where i feel that if i don't find someone soon, i probably never would. i know you all would say that i am so young and have a whole life ahead of me but due to some reasons that i am about to mention i may not have as much time. i come from a culture where you are expected to be married by a certain age and if you have not found a partner yourself, your parents would most likely arrange a marriage for you. second, i am almost in my senior year of college and I've almost never been approached by anyone and do not expect that to happen in near future too. now i wouldn't just be looking for someone because i want to dodge an arranged marriage, it's just that i know i can't live with someone who i do not share a connection with, or someone i love deeply. but it seems extremely difficult, almost impossible, to find someone. :/ Submitted April 08, 2023 at 01:15AM i (22f) have reached a point where i feel that if i don't find someo...