I [30M] went on a date last night with a woman [40F] whom I met on Bumble. She told me she was married for quite a while and that she hasn’t been with many men since her divorce. She grew up in the Indonesian, and said she was to be a virgin for her husband, etc. I’m white, so having grown up in the West I’ve been around the block a few times, so to speak. I told her that I didn’t want to scare her off, and admitted I’d been with 4 women this year. What should I do? Should I tell her the truth - that I’ve been with 24 women. I’m afraid I’ll scare her off! Submitted September 29, 2022 at 01:01AM I [30M] went on a date last night with a woman [40F] whom I met on Bumble. She told me she was married for quite a while and that she hasn’t been with many men since her divorce. She grew up in the Indonesian, and said she was to be a virgin for her husband, etc.I’m white, so having grown up in the West I’ve been around the block a few times, so to speak.I told her that I didn’t want t...

I’ve never been confident with my riding ability. I’ve done research on p*rn sites and I’d say I have decent leg strength. But also it looks like they literally bounce but I tried that and thankfully it was my good fwb who told me to stop. He said it hurt and honestly it hurt me too (he’s rather big).Right now my fwb is my Guinea pig… is this position favorable ?? ***Also my fwb isn’t too experienced bc where he is from he said most girls shied away from his size, so he isn’t much help. Submitted September 29, 2022 at 01:02AM I’ve never been confident with my riding ability. I’ve done research on p*rn sites and I’d say I have decent leg strength. But also it looks like they literally bounce but I tried that and thankfully it was my good fwb who told me to stop. He said it hurt and honestly it hurt me too (he’s rather big).Right now my fwb is my Guinea pig… is this position favorable ??***Also my fwb isn’t too experienced bc where he is from he said most girls shied away from hi...

Noooo hahahaha I thought this was some niche stuff I only thought. I don't share the same reasons as you but somehow it still coincided September 29, 2022 at 12:29AM

For my school district (I'm in the pacific northwest) they teach puberty and very basic anatomy starting in 4th grade and sex ed starting in 5th. You do it every year (if your parents don't opt you out) until you graduate (I think). It gets progressively more in depth each year. Thankfully my school district is very strict about separating church and school so nothing is influenced by that Edit: looking through the comments I feel like I should add that my school teaches about stds and stis (mainly hiv and aids) starting in 5th grade. I had no idea my school was actually decent at sex ed September 29, 2022 at 12:29AM

These were all people I had moved conversation with off of tinder. 2 of the 3 they suggested meeting up. 1 of the 3 I suggested it. I only had a date with the one, but it didn't go anywhere. I feel like I'm decently attractive, at least attractive enough to have 3 possible dates within the span of 3 weeks. I feel good about how I look and I'm pretty confident in who I am as a person and I've had good conversation with all of these guys over common interests. The two that flaked did the same "I need to reschedule so sorry" kinda thing (and obviously never rescheduled). I was getting kinda agitated with this happening so the last guy I asked if he was still up for going out, to see if he would actually tell me no he wasn't feeling it, but he said yes and still seemed into it. We made tentative plans for the rescheduled date, he asked what days I was free, I gave him a suggestion for a spot, aaaaaand radio silence ever since. It seemed like he was being se...

Bitte. Honestly, I think you know her better than any of us. But if she is Ace, significant others might be less likely, no guarantees and I'm not going to pretend to be an expert. My best advice is: just be a good parent and friend. If your daughter is doing well then just keep doing what you're doing. September 28, 2022 at 11:09PM

I recently turned 30! I have a pretty great life overall and love my friends, family, and job and feel really fortunate. However, the one thing that's missing is that I've been single for coming up on two years. I'm pretty independent and am making the best of my life, but I feel so ready to find a partner I'm excited about to build a life with, and dating hasn't been going great. It's been a while since I have met someone I clicked with and got excited about... I know it's better to be single than in the wrong relationship... and I've had two boyfriends in the past, so I know I'm not totally unlovable.... but it's just starting to feel like I might never fall in love or find a partner, and it feels hard seeing all my friends find their person and tell me it will happen for me too when it just feels like most people are partnered up... I know I'll have to be okay if I never find someone to love and have kids like I had always hoped, but woul...