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/u/Dor_Min on Seriously guys, we aren't at war. You can chill out.

those posts show up every month or two and they always alternate which group is feeling hard done by, thereby proving that there isn't actually a problem at all August 27, 2022 at 02:04AM

/u/some_strange_circus on risperdal

If you are considering switching medications, research them first...The first mood stabilizer I ever tried actually gave me a higher sex drive, which I wasn't expecting because I'd previously only taken SSRIs. August 27, 2022 at 02:00AM

Anyone ever heard of hookup ID’s particularly in the Bay Area?

Basically I got this app called CougarD and got some messages from women who were in their later 20’s which led to me getting their Snapchat. (I’m 20) turns out, they’re all into hooking up with me apparently they’ve all been sending me nude pictures of themselves they’re all so hot. This is in the Bay Area, I moved here from somewhere else I want something exciting being in California. Are these legit people doing this or compete scams? Basically it needs your credit card info to verify your identity, I just don’t think it feels right because I’m not paying for anything. And I know normally needing a credit card is a scam. It’s supposed to make the hookup culture safer apparently, this is how multiple of these women explain it. I really wanna hook up with these fine women if they’re legitimately looking to hook up safely. I will not be scammed though. Submitted August 27, 2022 at 01:40AM Basically I got this app called CougarD and got some messages from women who were in their ...

/u/PrincexRuby8 on Do you think aces and aros should be considered part of the LGBTQ community?

Aces and aros might not get as much discrimination, but holy fuck the amount of bigotry they can get from some people. I think that's enough to be part of the lgbtq+ community. August 27, 2022 at 12:39AM

I rejected him and nearly 3 months later, I still doubt my decision

I rejected this guy not once but twice. Before you guys crucify me, I had good reason. The first time I was getting close to a friend I had crushed on for months and who was totally my type. It made logical sense to try. We has only been on 4 dates. The second time was 3 months later. We reconnected when he played a gig at my hometown (we met in college and both spent our summers in our respective hometowns). I was so excited to see him again and was considering trying again after we spent hours catching up and kissing and cuddling. Sober me noped out. We definitely have incompatibilities- he had started smoking again this time (I hate smoking) and he drinks more than I like. He has admitted to getting into the odd drunken fight. I hate that. I told myself that despite this connection, I could find this in someone else and you can't change someone, there are too many obstacles. But there really isn't anyone like him. He's not perfect but we just click? When I turned him do...

/u/CEPEHbKOE on for the love of god

people who inspired you to make this post aren't even reading it - they are busy hating everything on their 10-ish dedicated communities. i highly recommend to ignore them completely. (i'm a hypocrite, and for that i have suffered) August 26, 2022 at 01:03AM

Asking for the number on a first Interaction

Basically what the title says. For context I was at the gym, saw a girl I've seen around once before like a month ago and went to say hello. We chatted for about 2 mins and exchanged names. And that was that. It was a pleasant interaction on both ends. Believe me when I say talking to a girl and ending pleasant is a new record for me. I'm kicking myself for not asking for the number, but at least next time it will be easier to talk to each other. In the future, should you go for the number right away? Or would it be better to gauge the likely hood you'll see them again and wait Submitted August 26, 2022 at 01:11AM Basically what the title says.For context I was at the gym, saw a girl I've seen around once before like a month ago and went to say hello.We chatted for about 2 mins and exchanged names. And that was that. It was a pleasant interaction on both ends.Believe me when I say talking to a girl and ending pleasant is a new record for me.I'm kicking m...