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Which would you say is worse?

Being the girl your ex broke off his engagement with or being the girl your ex never fully committed to you. Submitted July 16, 2022 at 01:04AM Being the girl your ex broke off his engagement with or being the girl your ex never fully committed to you.

/u/dewman2004 on I am ace, and i am valid!

Very well written. Can I steal your words and use them for myself? I honestly feel just like every single word that you used. Thank you for the expression of your reality. I know in my heart that someday there will be a greater understanding of us aces. Until then, we will suffer that disconnect in our attempted relationships and the other party will just shrug us off as being weird. July 15, 2022 at 11:35PM

I'm about to do some dumb shit

I'm fuckin done with dating. All of it. How can a person go from being so warm to ice cold at the snap of a finger? How can a woman aggressively push for a relationship and act vulnerable and intimate with me, then just stop? Last time I saw her I was trying to leave her apartment and she wouldn't let me and started sucking my dick and riding my cock like the world was going to end. When we finished she had this smitten look in her eyes and glowing smile as she hugged me goodbye. The next day she was still warm and intimate. Then 4 days later she dumps me and I havent heard from her in a week. I'm just so fucking jaded at this point. I hate people. I'm just gonna be a cat person. I'm getting wasted tonight. Submitted July 16, 2022 at 12:09AM I'm fuckin done with dating. All of it. How can a person go from being so warm to ice cold at the snap of a finger? How can a woman aggressively push for a relationship and act vulnerable and intimate with me, then ...

Is it wrong to share relationship problems with a friend?

My boyfriend (51M) and I (27F) have been together for around a year and a half now, we recently had a baby. While I don't ever see the relationship ending I also have concerns about how toxic it is becoming and really want the support of my close friend. However, I don't want to taint her view of my partner or cause any friction between them since obviously it would be ideal if everyone got along. He's an amazing man who does amazing work and all our friends adore him but he often has a cruel and harsh way with me that others don't see from him and would likely not believe he is capable of. Lately the toxicity has gone from only verbal/emotional to somewhat physical (pushing and shoving me, threatened to punch me but never has) and I now feel trapped in a relationship that I don't want to leave but don't know what to do about or have anyone to talk to. Becoming a little numb to the whole thing now... During our relationship he has helped me grow in so many ways...

/u/Ewace246 on Am I the only one that feels pickup lines are really creepy?

I find sexual pick up lines creepy. I prefer wholesale pick up lines like "your hand looks heavy. Do you want me to hold that for you?" But I've never told or heard pickup lines in a non-ironic context, so I'm not sure how I would react if a stranger said that to me. I guess if I already knew someone and was interested in them, I would find it cute. If I didn't know someone, I would be confused why they were talking to me and why they wanted to hold my hand. If I knew someone but wasn't interested in them, I would probably think it was a joke but might go along with it depending on how close friends we are. July 15, 2022 at 11:21PM

/u/MysticoftheWild on this applies here too i think

My mom will just have to make do with grand pups, grand cats, grand ferrets, and step grandchildren. She stopped asking me when I told I was ace, and all pressure went to my brother. 😆 July 15, 2022 at 11:18PM

Ended it with a FWB after 2 years and still hurting

I had a FWB for two years- i would barely call it that as we only hooked up a few times, but we texted every weekend consistently for those two years (we were long distance for most of it). He came back to my city for the summer, i was excited that id finally get to see him, and we still did our normal Saturday 2 am texting (and other stuff) but he still wouldnt meet up in person. Last week he invited me over, then changed his mind (said he wouldnt be able to perform well- he always was sounded insecure about that), then said OK lets do something tomorrow. When tomorrow came, and I asked if 5 was ok to hangout, he opened my message and never answered. I kinda lost it, asked why he was being like this etc. He responded say he was just exhausted and "recovering" from the previous night. I said "I get it, we aren't compatible, its ok, take care <3". I never got a response, until today when I go on snapchat and see that he blocked me, we were best friends on sna...