I guess I didn't make this clear initially so I will now: if you only want to experience sex in a loving marriage, then that's your choice and it's fine. If you never want to have sex at all, that's your choice and it's fine. Your sex life or the lack thereof is up to you and not any of my business, and it isn't your personal choices I'm objecting to. What I'm specifically objecting to are statements like "Sex outside of a loving marriage will only repulse you in the end" and "If you can handle it be a 100% Ace", which at the very least implies that anyone who doesn't subscribe to this way of thinking isn't a "true asexual", as you put it. Those statements are absolutes that are flat-out not true for every single asexual person. There isn't a single "correct" way to be asexual. It's a spectrum. Also you literally said that obviously I'm not a true asexual. Don't know what to tell you; I...

This guy from a dating app 29m connected with me 24f. We texted like all day non stop. He seemed sooo nice over text and he asked to talk on the phone. I thought it was going well and i was kind of joking/giving him a hard time about his driving cuz i could hear sirens on his end while he was driving. Idk if i actually offended him but then he hung up on me. Just suddenly the call ended. I txted him if we just disconnected. He texted back ya. Then i tried calling back and he wouldnt pick up. It's been a few hours and he never responded. I feel really hurt. Like if u dont wanna talk, just tell me instead of hanging up. I feel really bad if i offended him i was just warning him to drive safely cuz he only had one hand on the wheel talking to me. And then when i hears sirens i laughed and was like oh no i hope u didnt just cause an accident. Then bam. Never heard from him again. I keep overthinking like was that really rude of me? I was kind of nervous on the phone maybe i shouldnt h...

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I’m (20F) just curious since I’m dating a guy (27M) with the same name as my Dad. I do feel a bit awkward about it sometimes. Submitted May 06, 2022 at 12:09AM I’m (20F) just curious since I’m dating a guy (27M) with the same name as my Dad. I do feel a bit awkward about it sometimes.

Mds,, mais br aqui do q eu pensei May 05, 2022 at 11:32PM

This just happened to me. I was driving in the car with my friend for an hour and half road trip. We were making great conversation and catching up. While speaking he would periodically touch my arm. I was uncomfortable with it but said nothing because I didn’t want to seem over dramatic. I also understand some people talk and will touch your arm and it’s not sexual. On the drive back we were talking and laughing and his hand went from touching my arm to touching my upper thigh. Every fiber in my body screams repulsion. I felt violated. So I snatch his hand away and didn’t care how he felt about. He didn’t touch me again for the remainder of the trip. But the next day I called him and made it very clear I DON’T LIKE BEING TOUCHED he said he understood. I haven’t heard from him since. I just don’t get it. I’ve already told the guy I’m only interested in being friends and working together. He agreed. Then he does this? I’ve accepted the loss of the friendship for the sake of my boundari...

Yeah, theres definitely a physical appearance feature to most, if not, all apps, and OkCupid is not free from it! of course, sadly things aren't perfect when it comes to dating and well I think OKC is one of the better options lol Definitely a much more serious dating experience, but hey, as an asexual, thats what I personally wanted!! May 05, 2022 at 12:02AM