This is quite hard for me it only just fully set in, for some reason I was always in denial about it March 18, 2022 at 01:22AM

I’m attracted to all genders but unlike pan I have some sort of preference in gender, which for me is women and non-binary people . I’d still definitely date a man but I’d rather have a woman or non-binary person March 18, 2022 at 01:22AM

I(17m) have a crush on my best friend(16f). She's funny smart kind and extremely adorable. Whenever I talk to her I feel happy and that we'd be a good couple. I'm tempted to ask her out but I'm not confident in myself at all since I've never had a gf before. How do I ask her out and not look like a loser? Submitted March 18, 2022 at 12:14AM I(17m) have a crush on my best friend(16f). She's funny smart kind and extremely adorable. Whenever I talk to her I feel happy and that we'd be a good couple. I'm tempted to ask her out but I'm not confident in myself at all since I've never had a gf before. How do I ask her out and not look like a loser?

yes same! March 18, 2022 at 12:19AM

my best friend, let's call her Diana (f28), has had some tough luck with her previous partners. lately, she told me she has a choice between either starting over and finding someone new (she really wants to start a family soon, so realistically this could be a challenge) or starting back up with her ex who is essentially a tyrant. she loves him, but he's got a very closed minded attitude that women should be slaves to their husbands. i am scared that she decides to go that route she will ultimately divorce him, so i am trying to encourage her in any way possible get out there and start seeing someone new. i have been in a relationship for 10 years, so i don't even know where to start to give her advice. she's over dating apps... the only thing i can think of is sending her lists of events coming up in our area that have to do with her interests (conferences, workshops, the gym, etc) so that she can have a more suited pool of men to choose from, but i don't even kn...

This title is kinda misleading as I have already asked her on the date after texting for three days, as I have researched online that three days is optimal for initial texting before meeting someone. We have been texting for several hours per day after I finish my work usually at night, because I work from 9 to 5 as developer and don't have much time for texting. She rejected me because she said it is too early and she is not that comfortable, which is obviously completely fine to me, and I said that we should then talk more online before going out. My question is how long should I wait then before asking her out again, now obviously you are not her you do not know when she will feel comfortable to go out with me, but if you've been in the similar situation maybe I can make in my brain some time interval that would help me. Submitted March 18, 2022 at 12:14AM This title is kinda misleading as I have already asked her on the date after texting for three days, as I have ...

So I (m20) have one of my first actual dates planned for next Sunday. We are going to go to the mall so she can go shopping, have some lunch together, walk around and then go to her place to watch a move or series. But at work right now I don’t feel like going anymore. I haven’t talked to her, it just came really random. I was supposed to go and pick her up, which is a 20 minute drive, then basically go back to where I came from, but instead of going left somewhere, i have to turn right. This is another 20-30 minute drive, to then park in the center off the city, which is gonna be really crowded because it’s a Sunday, and also payed. After that if we go to her place I have to meet and introduce myself to her parents. And I just feel like I don’t want to do all of that, because i basically know it’s not going to turn out to be anything because I suck at dating and I’m not the relationship type of person. I was thinking of faking a positive COVID test to tell her I can’t come anymo...