Oooh! That's good. Most of mine are kind of uncommon so I feel like they'd understand? I love Calliope, Sasha, Avalon, and Quincy. So I feel like they could kinda go either way? Maybe? December 28, 2021 at 03:43AM

Why do people think it's okay to say something like that? Throw the whole person in the garbage December 28, 2021 at 03:42AM

Well first of all the fact that I didn’t even know what asexuality was, second of all the fact that I feel romantic attraction towards men. December 28, 2021 at 03:42AM

Jamie, Mason, Kristen, Alex, These are all options. I really like androgynous names, because they sound the best. But ya know if they do decide to change what they are, they dont have to hate the gendered name I gave them. December 28, 2021 at 03:41AM

Sexual attraction is attraction on the basis of sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest. If you feel no sexual attraction towards people, you are asexual. If it is variable or difficult to explain, look into some of the microlabels under asexuality. However, based on what you’ve said, it’s most likely that you just feel dysphoria about your genitalia.. which.. same. Regardless, you’re valid and I’m sorry sex weird :/ December 28, 2021 at 03:40AM

As a now 21y.o who had (and still has) these exact insecurities, here's my take on it: You are the #1 person to care about in your life. Your boundaries are established with only yourself in mind and should be respected. Cross the line = get shot (figuratively) Being ace really feels intimidating, but don't see it like ace vs. allo . It's more like ace & gays & lesbians & bisexuals & heteros & pans & omnis (so on and so forth). I'll let you in on a secret: as Ace F, you can date lesbians, bisexuals, pans, omnis and heteros. Everyone has trouble dating, yet your (a)sexuality shouldn't be a reason to be ashamed. Quite the contrary: gays, lesbians and bisexuals say it openly; it makes it easier to navigate dating, people who aren't into them just walk away by themselves. Being open about who you are is the best way to date in a self-affirming way, and increases the chances of finding someone with whom you are compatible. Patience. Dat...

Hey everyone, I know this might a stupid question or I'm overthinking everything but I'm pretty new to dating in general so any advice on anything is greatly appreciated :) So here's the situation, I [M19] met this really cool girl [F20] on Tinder. We immediately hit it off and moved on to talk on our Instagram accounts. After talking for a day or so, we made plans and went on a coffee date. According to me, it went pretty well, we had a lot in common and surprisingly there wasn't any awkward silence. We made plans to watch a movie at but didn't go too much into detail as to when or where. After the date I walked with her most of the way to her place since we apparently live pretty close by and... I think I fucked up but not too hard I hope. When we said goodbye I could tell she wanted me to make a move but earlier she told me she had been in contact with someone who had covid and I needed to get on a plane the next day to see my family and I couldn't risk it...