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Toxic? Crazy? Or manipulation

Ok yall I feel like I'm going crazy. So long story short my boyfriend and I got into a fight that I didn't think was that serious but now that some new information came to light I think I am being cheated on.but I need a second opinion please. So we had 1 beer each in late at my house (he lives with me) on 12/1. He informs me that while we are drinking that his female coworker hugged him (one that prior said he had a fat butt etc). So I asked him why he let her hug him? He blew up at me saying he didn't blah blah blah but they hugged. He then starts grabbing all his clothes says he'll get a hotel or go stay with his grandma. So he starts a deletion and blocking process of me whatever no big deal. He just keeps an attitude until the 3rd he says he wants to come back all that he is done fighting (I was ready to move on) but whatever. So he comes back on 12/3 brings all his stuff with him and claims he got into a fight with family and thats why he got scratches on him. He...

I'm not sure if I'm being dumb

(20m) There is this girl I used to work with (22f), and she is beautiful in every single way. I like the way she speaks, her body language, she is funny, and she is good. We haven't worked together for a good time and saw each other at a party for the first time in 8 months, then the first thing she does is call me by my name and says "my favorite coworker! How are you?" In a loud tone, and hugs me clearly cutting in half the conversation she was having before. It surprised me a lot since I had a crush on her, but throughout the party I sat down and remember most of the interactions we had and then thought of the miniscule possibilty that she was trying to hit on me. So here's why I'm dumb: I didn't talk with her in the entire time we were there!🤡 I felt embarrassed at myself so I texted her the next day and we catched up. We've been talking for the last few days, and I'm not sure if I should ask her directly "hey, do you like me?" What ...

The girl I am dating doesn't want gift from me?

Hey gang, I am M(29) and I have been talking to F(30) for 2 months and been seeing her for more than a month now. As you know, Christmas is coming up, so I thought about buying her a small gift like a candle (I didn't tell her). So, I asked her if I could get her a gift for Christmas, but she told me: "Appreciate the thought, but I don't want you spending money. :)" Does this mean she is no longer want to see me, because she doesn't want to be indebted or feel like she has to reciprocate? Submitted December 06, 2021 at 01:11AM Hey gang,I am M(29) and I have been talking to F(30) for 2 months and been seeing her for more than a month now.As you know, Christmas is coming up, so I thought about buying her a small gift like a candle (I didn't tell her).So, I asked her if I could get her a gift for Christmas, but she told me: "Appreciate the thought, but I don't want you spending money. :)"Does this mean she is no longer want to see me, bec...

I'm lying about my weight to a guy on my dating profile

Kind of. I created the profile back before the pandemic and recently logged back in for the first time. A guy had messaged me and I messaged back because he said something funny. The only problem is that I gained a SIGNIFICANT amount of weight, but I've been working hard to actively lose it (like 40lbs down in a few months) and get my weight back down. We've been talking for a few weeks and he seems really sweet, but I feel like i've missed my window to disclose it. I'm not sure what to do about it. Submitted December 06, 2021 at 01:13AM Kind of. I created the profile back before the pandemic and recently logged back in for the first time. A guy had messaged me and I messaged back because he said something funny. The only problem is that I gained a SIGNIFICANT amount of weight, but I've been working hard to actively lose it (like 40lbs down in a few months) and get my weight back down. We've been talking for a few weeks and he seems really sweet, but I fe...

Is it okay for me (22F) to ask out an older guy (44M) that I met recently?

I'm a University student and I just turned 22 years old. My biggest passion is the card game bridge, and I recently started playing at my local bridge club. I'm the youngest person there by a reasonable amount. The first time I went, I played against this guy who is 44 years old. We chatted after the session and I felt like we had a bit of a spark. That was about two months ago, and since then I've been hoping to see him again at the bridge club but he hasn't been at any sessions. Some of the other players mentioned him occasionally and alluded to him being very busy. Then last week, I attended a social gathering hosted by the club and I was really excited to see he was also there. I had a blast chatting to him and was even gearing up to ask if I could buy him a drink (there was a bar at the event). Before I could ask, he told me he couldn't stay at the event long and was leaving soon. I still had a nice time talking to him, and before he left I told him to let ...

Am I dumb for refusing sex??

A very attractive individual asked if we could have sex and I said i couldn’t, then they asked to exchange nudes and I also said I couldn’t. I really like how this person looks and I wanted to go out with them but they just want sex and it made me feel unease the idea of sex with a stranger. I told that person “I’m really afraid of having sex with someone it’s not personal”. Submitted December 06, 2021 at 12:26AM A very attractive individual asked if we could have sex and I said i couldn’t, then they asked to exchange nudes and I also said I couldn’t. I really like how this person looks and I wanted to go out with them but they just want sex and it made me feel unease the idea of sex with a stranger. I told that person “I’m really afraid of having sex with someone it’s not personal”.

P2V sex is not pleasurable for my SO.

Me(27m) an my partner (24f) started having sex 5 months back. Both of us are very into it and are trying to explore each other. The issue is she doesn't feel anything during p2v sex. I get her to orgasm everyday by fingering her or by going down on her. She enjoys it very much too. I can even make her squirt by fingering her. But p2v, i feel that she is just enduring for me. Both of us are new to sex. I have read that very less women are able to orgasm through p2v sex. Is that true?? Am i doing something wrong?? Submitted December 06, 2021 at 12:31AM Me(27m) an my partner (24f) started having sex 5 months back. Both of us are very into it and are trying to explore each other.The issue is she doesn't feel anything during p2v sex. I get her to orgasm everyday by fingering her or by going down on her. She enjoys it very much too. I can even make her squirt by fingering her. But p2v, i feel that she is just enduring for me.Both of us are new to sex. I have read that very l...