Had a first date last night. I think it went well, although I think he's a little too good for me. Nonetheless, he insisted on walking me home (a full 30 minutes out of his way), joked about giving me driving lessons and said he'd text me. He litreally did 5 minutes later to say thanks for a great night and that I'm very cute. He texted me at 1pm today and texted me back and forth until I stopped replying around 9pm. No mention of a second date or wanting to see me again. I don't know why he'd bother messaging me like 20 times if he wasn't interested? Submitted November 11, 2021 at 01:12AM Had a first date last night. I think it went well, although I think he's a little too good for me. Nonetheless, he insisted on walking me home (a full 30 minutes out of his way), joked about giving me driving lessons and said he'd text me. He litreally did 5 minutes later to say thanks for a great night and that I'm very cute. He texted me at 1pm today and t...

I’ve been with my girl (Both 20) for around 3 months now and we’ve recently made it official after quite a long talking phase, whenever we meet up she’s really easy to talk to and whenever we call it’s the same and we seem to really enjoy it. However whenever we message each-other throughout the day or on an evening it feels like the conversation is really dry at some points and it feels like I’m trying to come up with engaging responses to keep the conversation going. I don’t know whether this is normal or whether I’m doing something wrong but sometimes it feels like I’m trying way too hard to try and keep her interested. Any advice would be much appreciated <3 Submitted November 11, 2021 at 01:13AM I’ve been with my girl (Both 20) for around 3 months now and we’ve recently made it official after quite a long talking phase, whenever we meet up she’s really easy to talk to and whenever we call it’s the same and we seem to really enjoy it. However whenever we message each-othe...

Excuse my over elaborating... blah blah blah ADHD. TL;DR need things I(26M) can ask my slightly long distant GF (23F) (1-hour drive) to do, so she feels like she provides value to the relationship, that doesn't feel forced. My new girlfriend comes from a poor family and she is struggling financially due to a rough home situation and health problems preventing her from being able to work. I'm a decently well-paid engineer, so I'm able to pay for dates or anything no problem really, it's just doing things I enjoy but with her. Whether it's going to a hockey game, checking out a movie, dinner or whatever, I generally pay because if I expected her to contribute money to those things, they just wouldn't happen. We've been friends for a few years, so her struggles, both physical and emotional, are no surprise to me (and were definitely considerations before I agreed to get physical and eventually begin to form a relationship, but on the balance, she's a l...

we've been talking for a week and decided to meet since next week i'm busy. today would've worked unless we wait 2 weeks. the problem was his car battery needs to get replaced and said he would get it fixed this weekend. he lives about an hour away and we planned to meet in the middle, since his car is broken i'm going to him. ... did i kinda fuck up by asking for gas money ? i'm in california and unleaded is 4.30 where i am.. so i figured $8 would be fine. he replied "sure sounds good".. he's still messaging me thankfully but i feel i gave the wrong impression :/. i'm not well off financially but we like each other so far so ofc we want to meet. would u give a girl gas money if she's driving to you? 😬 Submitted November 11, 2021 at 01:16AM we've been talking for a week and decided to meet since next week i'm busy. today would've worked unless we wait 2 weeks. the problem was his car battery needs to get replaced and said...

Tell her you are not comfortable with her sharing your private identity that makes you more vulnerable and that you need her to stop. I can’t be sure exactly how she identifies apart from lesbian but this stinks of pure allosexual ignorance to me and it’s coming from her. November 11, 2021 at 12:43AM

Being stoic, scientific types? November 11, 2021 at 12:42AM

I think we all already know this? But who's "we"? There are new people discovering their sexual orientation every day, and asexuality is still not very mainstream, so a lot of baby aces' first introduction to asexuality will be through forums like this one. I think we should be able to find a balance between giving everyone a safe space to share their personal experiences and making sure people who've just discovered asexuality don't come away with the wrong idea about what it even is. November 11, 2021 at 12:41AM