It kind of works but not very well, I usually imagine being chased by polar bears in the arctic. November 09, 2021 at 11:40PM

It's different with kids. They're still trying to learn the nuances of interpersonal relationships through observation and comparison. Since the strongest example in their lives should [sic] be their parents, it makes sense that the predominant template would be a heteronormative romantic relationship. Adults are different. In their case, it's closer to voyeurism and may even count as sexual harassment depending on circumstances and actions. November 09, 2021 at 11:40PM

LOL WHO WOULD BE GULLIBLE ENOUGH TO CLICK ON THAT November 09, 2021 at 11:39PM

Yup! When I first joined the military, there were a few people in my shop that would ship me with random other people at our squadron. SUPER weird. And all because I was single and they felt it was their "obligation to fix it". After a few years though, I was just known as "she who shows up to do the job, collect a paycheck, and go TF home alone in peace" lol But yeah, I don't get why people do it to actual people. For example, I'm not a huge fan of One Direction, but I feel bad for some of the members because their friendships with each other were severely altered after preteens would ship them and write fanfiction and such.... November 09, 2021 at 11:39PM

No clue, I’ve never been to one myself. I only know of them from on Reddit November 09, 2021 at 11:38PM

We've been dating for about a year, and most other things in our relationship are good. Except sex. The sex we have is so awful I've literally been questioning if I'm asexual or something. I had seen pictures before our first time, so I knew his penis wasn't the biggest beforehand. I figured it wouldn't be a big deal. I have slept with guys who are on the smaller end in the past, and it was fine. In fact, my former FWB had a penis that was ~4.5 inches and I would consider him to be the best I've ever had. When I saw it in person, I still thought it would be fine. I would say it's 3-4 inches, maybe 4.5 after I give him a lengthy blowjob. He's decently thick, so I figured that would make up for the length. I was wrong. It's so small I can barely feel it inside of me. You might be thinking of the age-old saying, "It's not the size! It's what you do with it!" Well, what am I supposed to do if he has no idea what to with it AND it...

I made a bad decision and had unprotected sex with someone that I have been talking to. It’s day 3 and I have a burning sensation on the outer part of my vagina. I am scared that I contracted something. Please share your advice. Submitted November 10, 2021 at 12:53AM I made a bad decision and had unprotected sex with someone that I have been talking to. It’s day 3 and I have a burning sensation on the outer part of my vagina. I am scared that I contracted something. Please share your advice.