I think it's quite normal for our labido to fluctuate with our period. I notice while on the pill, mine doesn't fluctuate at all though. It stays at near zero permanently! November 04, 2021 at 12:32AM

Biromantic grey, sex indifferent, no libido. November 04, 2021 at 12:32AM

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I’m 25F and haven’t enjoyed sex up until this point in my life. I’ll just say it straight out. My body struggles to become aroused (the whole idea of being wet still escapes me) and my own sexuality feels like a big, nebulous cloud hanging over me most of the time. I have historically only dated people who I knew were aesthetically attractive because it did not occur to me until recently that sexual attraction is not the same thing as thinking someone is aesthetically attractive. I almost never initiate sex in relationships bc I have no idea when you would even do that, it doesn’t cross my mind (I mean my partners always want more sex than me anyways so not an issue). But I will admire my partner in passing just like thinking they’re good looking. I know I have a sex drive in here somewhere, I do desire and fantasize about sex in my head with my partner but in person my body just doesn’t… work. I am working on listening to my body more and trying to figure out what is sexually attract...

I (20f) have a veeery very weird kink and I'm not sure if and how I should bring it up to my partner (21m) because it's really embarrassing for me. To be clear: my kink is weird and uncommon BUT it is completely safe and harmless. I wouldn't hurt myself, my boyfriend nor anybody else and it is nothing illegal. Me and my bf have a great sex life, I care about him a lot, but I'm holding a big part of my sexuality back and it frustrates me. He knows that I have a kink, he doesn't know which one, and he's always reassured me that it's safe for me to say it whenever I feel like to, that I don't have to feel embarrassed about things that makes me special, that he won't tell anybody, that he just wants me to feel free and that it's all up to me. He's been very sweet and supportive. A part of me wants to tell him and finally get to explore that part of my sexuality with somebody and get it off my chest. On the other hand, we've been dating fo...

Okay so... I should start with a disclaimer, I have been drinking a bit, so this is the only time I would ever post something like this. Sorry if my grammar or spelling is horrible. Hopefully, Grammarly comes in clutch here. Also, this is an alt account for obvious reasons lmao. I'm a 19-year-old (about to be 20) female who's a virgin. Recently, though, my sex drive is through the fucking roof. My entire day consists of me thinking about nothing but sex. I've even been close to leaving work early because of it... In high school, I repressed my sexual desires completely. I did have boyfriends, yes, but I never let it get farther than kissing due to fear. All of the females in my family are more than likely legit undiagnosed sex addicts, and I grew up in a very sex-oriented environment. I guess, seeing these women ruin their lives over sex kind of scared me away from it. I'm scared to do ANYTHING sexual because I'm afraid to become like them. I want to lose my vir...