First off: Fuck this person and everything they stand for. Secondly, there's nothing wrong with you and I am glad you were able to figure yourself out. The fact that this individual not only dismissed your attempt to be vulnerable with them but also belittled you and assumed you must hate yourself because you came out as ace shows a shortcoming on their part, not you. You are not less for being ace, you aren't undateable because you're ace, and your worth isn't measured by your looks or whether or not you're single. The bright side of this is you now know this person isn't a friend and no longer have to waste time putting your trust in someone who doesn't respect you. October 30, 2021 at 12:03AM

The problem is that being asexual isn't something that is hurting people, so why would a doctor want to treat it? To be fair, there are reasons for a person to have not had sex that can be of medical concern. It's not completely out of line for a doctor to think of that. The specific comment this doctor made was rude and out of line, but expressing concern about it in an otherwise healthy-appearing patient is reasonable, as long as it's expressed in a respectful and compassionate manner. Asexuality is weird among sexualities in that way—lack of sexual interest can be a symptom of certain medical conditions in ways that other sexualities cannot be. October 30, 2021 at 12:01AM

Not a good friend to keep around… 😢 That’s so rude of them. Being Ace has nothing to do with being single or lonely or feeling like you can’t be with someone. I’m sure you’ll find someone. You’ll find better friends who won’t be rude or disrespectful of your sexuality. A lot of people don’t understand Asexuality, unfortunately when people don’t understand things they turn to making fun of it.. but that’s no excuse to be a butt wipe. You are valid and so it your sexuality. October 30, 2021 at 12:00AM

So you described promiscuity, meaning your understanding of ace is some level of chastity. Asexual does not mean prude or celibate. It's a very common misconception. October 29, 2021 at 11:59PM

I don't want to discourage you if you feel like it's safe to come out to them, but them teaching you to "wait until marriage" does not equate to them being on board. I also reccomend having something to fallback to in case thing go bad, it could be as simple as friends who know and support you. October 29, 2021 at 11:56PM

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I don't understand why guys are so weird. I'm 5'0 and 140 lbs but guys literally tell me if I was 50 lbs lighter they would be able to "throw me around and pick me up" better. Does a short woman or any woman have to be under 5'3 and weigh 110 lbs and less to achieve this act? One guy even told me that women that are 5'3+ are too tall and not "spinner" type! I was shocked Submitted October 30, 2021 at 12:42AM I don't understand why guys are so weird. I'm 5'0 and 140 lbs but guys literally tell me if I was 50 lbs lighter they would be able to "throw me around and pick me up" better. Does a short woman or any woman have to be under 5'3 and weigh 110 lbs and less to achieve this act? One guy even told me that women that are 5'3+ are too tall and not "spinner" type! I was shocked