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/u/StrawberryGirl_7 on How do you deal/ have dealt with the sex drive of an allo partner?

With my current partner, I have given him an out and said "I know I can't give you everything you want and if you want to seek that with another person, I'm giving you permission" to which he denied. He takes care of himself and we occasionally (couple times a year) will have sex but only when I want to (and he does too obv) and initiate it. October 20, 2021 at 12:28AM

/u/TwistingDeceit on Why do I feel disgusted after doing something sensual?

I feel this way too. Not sure why. October 20, 2021 at 12:28AM

/u/JustASock333 on Do any asexual’s enjoy massages?

I don't but I'm uncomfortable with most touches from most people. I'll hug my mother, grandmother and sister easily, but that's about it October 20, 2021 at 12:22AM

/u/pixie13903 on Anyone here who has been in allo-ace relationship and ever felt like they had to have sex with that partner even when they didn't want to? Please only answer if you are comfortable to, I don't want to make anyone feel uncomfortable

I answered kinda because although it wasn't sex, it was letting him touch me sexually even though I didn't want that and it made me uncomfortable. I felt like I had to let him do it, that I don't get a say in it and I need to to it to make him happy. That guy is blocked everywhere don't worry he's not talking to me anytime soon :) October 20, 2021 at 12:22AM

I need help with being dominant to a sub/brat

I was never really good at these type of things ans I want to make my girlfriend feel good in every type of way. Is there anything I can do to be more of the dominant type? I'm an amateur with these type of things. I'm dominant but not in the way the type of dominant she wants. I just want to use words and actions to make it a lot better for her. Submitted October 20, 2021 at 12:34AM I was never really good at these type of things ans I want to make my girlfriend feel good in every type of way. Is there anything I can do to be more of the dominant type? I'm an amateur with these type of things. I'm dominant but not in the way the type of dominant she wants. I just want to use words and actions to make it a lot better for her.

Committed relationship but BF still comments on nudes

I (35F) am in a relationship with a truly lovely man (40M). We communicate very well about everything including having hard conversations and working forwards on our future. Our sex life has grown and we are active and happy with this. We are open to exploring what each other wants and we have pushed boundaries in the past and have plans to keep pushing boundaries in the future. We are working on some issues with our different needs but that's not a bad thing because we talk about it. We use each other's phone at different times for convenience to make calls or share interesting things or whatever. So from this I know that my bf looks at women online. I mean on reddit and IG and twitter. I already know he did and I am not uncomfortable with him looking online or in real life. What I don't understand is him making comments. He doesn't comment much and it's not really inappropriate in that he just says if he thinks that particular woman is hot. But I don't unde...

If you know anything about the Nuvaring...

Basically I've been good with my nuvaring for the last 6 months- just had my "off" week during my period which would call for me to insert a new ring yesterday (I didn't) and still haven't (need to refill my prescription.... really want to see my boyfriend tonight though and don't want to use a condom... I know pulling out is the worst "contraception" being that it doesn't work... buttttt do any of u with knowledge involving b.c know if just 2 days off since my b.c free week makes it too risky ??? ​ Thanks! Submitted October 20, 2021 at 12:44AM Basically I've been good with my nuvaring for the last 6 months- just had my "off" week during my period which would call for me to insert a new ring yesterday (I didn't) and still haven't (need to refill my prescription.... really want to see my boyfriend tonight though and don't want to use a condom... I know pulling out is the worst "contraception" being that...