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i don’t feel desired by my boyfriend anymore

i (early 20’s) can’t tell if this is all in my head, or maybe i’m just having an issue with seeking validation or wanting sex as a form of feeling loved, i don’t know. i do struggle from sexual trauma but i don’t cry during sex or get panic attacks anymore, so maybe this is how it’s been showing up? but anyway, recently i have noticed i’m the only one initiating. my boyfriend used to initiate a lot, like waking me up for sex, touching me even when we’re in public, whispering in my ear he wants to have sex when we get home, etc. but he doesn’t even try to have sex with me anymore. i always initiate, and when we have sex it’s great and he’s really into it, but if i don’t initiate we just don’t have sex. i’m not sure what it is. is he tired of my body? we’ve been together for two years. i’ve tried to be more exciting and give him more blow jobs and even offered to try anal but no change. told him he doesn’t have to make me finish anymore either. one night i cried telling him how i feel...

Problems with ED at a young age

Had this girl I been talking to for a minute watched a movie had some drinks wasn’t tipsy or drunk shortly after had her butt naked in front of me ready to go but... I couldn’t get it up told her the truth she helped me get half chubby she ended up finishing and tried to help me do the same and then I also couldn’t do that either I just told her to stop she tried to console me but I was angry as fuck cause i thought to myself the entire time if I was actually ok mentally or physically like im 22 yrs old and couldn’t get it up or finish I read something about having a emotional attachment with the person I’m with can be a problem but even if I never had this problem before a few days later thought maybe it was because of the liquor in my body and again was struggling by myself to get fully erect should i even think of supplements, pills, or even eating healthier I mean i think I’m pretty fit i keep up with my body I dont eat to many fruits or veggies lately but i mean i look physicall...

Get really physically exhausted after orgasm

I’m 27F and recently when I use my vibrator and have an orgasm I’m like overly exhausted and tired and sleepy. I can usually be, I know that’s normal but this is definitely not the normal for me to be this physically strained. My libido/sex drive has recently been high I don’t know if that corresponds. But has anyone experienced this Submitted October 19, 2021 at 12:48AM I’m 27F and recently when I use my vibrator and have an orgasm I’m like overly exhausted and tired and sleepy. I can usually be, I know that’s normal but this is definitely not the normal for me to be this physically strained. My libido/sex drive has recently been high I don’t know if that corresponds. But has anyone experienced this

I am mostly into guys and bottom but I love watching amateur spitroast porn or mfm or even mmf porn and sometimes I wonder if I am gay or bisexual

Title kinda speaks for itself but yea I love a mans body and I love having a dick in my mouth, but I love amateur spitroast porn. I know some videos are disrespectful and downright disgusting but I found some really nice amateur mfm spitroast porn and it was amazing. I mean the woman was respected and it was erotic and sometimes that shit gets me off more then gay porn. I dont know if this means im gay or bisexual or maybe I should say that I dont have labels . Submitted October 19, 2021 at 12:52AM Title kinda speaks for itself but yea I love a mans body and I love having a dick in my mouth, but I love amateur spitroast porn. I know some videos are disrespectful and downright disgusting but I found some really nice amateur mfm spitroast porn and it was amazing. I mean the woman was respected and it was erotic and sometimes that shit gets me off more then gay porn.I dont know if this means im gay or bisexual or maybe I should say that I dont have labels .

If you could design your perfect (LTR) sex life, what would it look like?

No caveats, no external issues, just the perfect sex life for you in a LTR. How often? What sex activities? Vanilla? Etc. Submitted October 19, 2021 at 12:57AM No caveats, no external issues, just the perfect sex life for you in a LTR. How often? What sex activities? Vanilla? Etc.

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What is the difference between love and fate? Submitted October 18, 2021 at 11:41PM What is the difference between love and fate?

Dating at the gym or yoga class?

What are the “rules” of wanting to date people at the gym or yoga class? Do you guys or girls viewed it as a no no place, a sacred place and don’t do that sort of stuff there? I imagine some go to both places not looking to get hit on or date. Or is it OK? What’s the general consensus? Submitted October 19, 2021 at 12:01AM What are the “rules” of wanting to date people at the gym or yoga class?Do you guys or girls viewed it as a no no place, a sacred place and don’t do that sort of stuff there?I imagine some go to both places not looking to get hit on or date.Or is it OK? What’s the general consensus?