I put ‘cool (っ◔◡◔)っ ♥’ as my answer in the other section lol. October 03, 2021 at 11:45PM

It sounds like considering you're all girls, and there are so many spaces in which women talking about sex has received negative reactions/slut shaming/etc, your friends are probably just feeling defensive because it IS a topic that has made a lot of girls feel criticized or dirty. I get what YOU'RE saying and feel similarly, but it's probably just them feeling like you're judging them since historically this is a sensitive topic (that women can talk about sex and taking charge of their bodies etc). I'd say they probably take the repulsive responses to mean you're grossed out by them and their choices-- not just the concept of it at all. And maybe that can be a discussion you have with them, at some point. October 03, 2021 at 11:39PM

However you end up asexual it's valid, but in this case you might just be afraid of sex. If you are allo, you'll eventually find someone that you will have good experiences with. If not, that's okay too. October 03, 2021 at 11:39PM

If you don't like the idea of sex and don't think you'll ever want to have sex you're probably ace. And that's great! If it turns out later down the road you do feel sexual you might be allo. And that's great! I will say that asexuality is a spectrum, meaning some asexuals masturbate or have sex for the purpose of procreation. Being ace just means that you don't have a sexual attraction for other people. I hope you figure this out OP 💜 October 03, 2021 at 11:34PM

Not heterosexuals, allosexuals. October 03, 2021 at 11:28PM

I’m 18F and I literally have no experience in sexual situations. I’ve never even seen a penis in person. I have someone to have sex and all the precursors with, but is there a way to take it slowly? I have pretty severe anxiety and I don’t want to end up freaking out Submitted October 04, 2021 at 12:28AM I’m 18F and I literally have no experience in sexual situations. I’ve never even seen a penis in person.I have someone to have sex and all the precursors with, but is there a way to take it slowly? I have pretty severe anxiety and I don’t want to end up freaking out

So I just found out about r/ThroughTheFly and you don't know how long I've been trying to find content like this. Is there like an alternative name for this kind of stuff? Also idk if this is the right subreddit, I just don't know where else to ask. Submitted October 04, 2021 at 12:46AM So I just found out about r/ThroughTheFly and you don't know how long I've been trying to find content like this. Is there like an alternative name for this kind of stuff?Also idk if this is the right subreddit, I just don't know where else to ask.