I’m 31, aro-ace, and never intend to get married (or even date). Relationships and marriage just aren’t for everyone. I come from a conservative culture as well (Chinese), and I’ve had family members give me the side eye at times, but who cares? It’s your life, not theirs. Pay no mind to the pressure your mother tries to throw on you. Like water off a duck’s back September 29, 2021 at 11:28PM

Dear 'defenders' and 'advocates': FUCK. OFF. Seriously tho, what kind of troll logic is this? You're opressing me by not wanting to fuck me? Like, what?! This has to be some kind of right-wing shenanigans, people can't possibly be that stupid. September 29, 2021 at 11:27PM

For me when I was a little girl I used to hump things and discovered something felt good. I then had a huge crush on a actor but in real life he was engaged so I got my heartbroken and I decided to make my own boyfriend up basing him off the actors face and body. So I didn't think anything was off with me until I had sex and experimented with different guys with sex. Nothing worked and I was often met with haven't had good sex yet but I did. I mean "good sex" is o different opinions anyway. I was never aroused during any of my sexual encounter's. But I've realized I have a connection to aegosexuality. I've at times struggled with having feeling's of negativity towards sex because it's a frustrating having a sex drive and not being able to get physical pleasure from partnered sex. For the most part I think sex is a beautiful thing, its mainly when I start hating myself for who I am is when I say things or think things sexual give me bad feelings. I...

I used to be hyper sexual as a younger teenager, but as I got older I realized that I wasn't attracted to anyone irl sexually and only had sexual fantasies about fictional characters. September 29, 2021 at 11:22PM

When people showed me pictures gushing over how hot someone was and I just thought they looked... okay I guess September 29, 2021 at 11:22PM

Here’s kind of an update. I haven’t talked to any of the girls since that Monday, over a week ago. By the end of last week, my roommate and I have concluded that it is a slight possibility that it might happen. That Monday night I meant to text a group of friends back home the news. But, I texted my frat chat accidentally. (Well all I texted was “I got BIG news). When, I realized that I texted the wrong chat, it was too late. I did text the group chat that I meant to text after I was texting my frat chat. I told them I accidentally texted the wrong group chat and meant to text a group chat of friends from back home. They all wanted to know. By Tuesday, they were able to convince me to tell them the news after Chapter that Friday. So, I told them the news after chapter that Friday and showed them pictures of the girls. All of this caused them to loose their shit and they had MANY questions for me. They was shocked that the girls wanted to do it (I consider myself a 4, maybe 3 and the...

Well, this has quite a few layers into this. I feel like I need to question if I am attracted to my boyfriend. I have been masturbating by humping blankets since I am a teenager. I have tried using my hands and some other things as well but it didn't really work. I didn't think about it much since I thought I'll never be in a sexual relationship with anyone. I also don't watch porn or imagine myself having sex during masturbation but only other people. 4 months ago I have fallen in love and started a romantic relationship with my boyfriend. Appearently, he never had any romantic nor sexual relationship with anyone before, either. We have been doing sexual things together for 2 months. I haven't gotten any orgasm during our activities. At first, that really affected him and I felt terrible for not getting off. We have talked about the whole situation of me not getting an orgasm unless I am humping a blanket and he told me that he doesn't want to do anything se...