I've loved one person who was my best friend since we were children, and it's been about a decade, and despite how much I love her, I have no sexual feelings August 30, 2021 at 11:49PM

I’m not contradicting the others, they’re probably right. They’re aces, I’m not. But is possible to be allo and also be sex-averse/sex-repulsed. August 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

Depending on where you live you can get help about your parents August 30, 2021 at 11:48PM

Yeah I got tested for chlamydia once, even though I told my doc I was not sexually active. Out of pocket on that one too. Fuckin sucks when people don't believe you. At least I get why they want to check if you've had your period, because issues with your cycle has to do with more than sexual activity. Sorry to hear that you had a similar experience :( August 30, 2021 at 11:47PM

Ok? August 30, 2021 at 11:46PM

If you are ace who has never had an involuntary physiological reaction when you see someone attractive, this is the best way to help an allo understand (I’m allo): Dad, when you first see someone that you find sexually attractive what happens? I mean physically, how does it feel? What sensations do you get? Dad tells you what it feels like. Dad, nothing like that has ever happened to me. I have no idea what you’re talking about. Maybe he still won’t accept it but he’ll understand what is different. August 30, 2021 at 11:42PM

Ouch so much worse that you have to pay for it out of pocket. Luckily my new gynecologist just nodded and went ahead with everything when I said I was asexual not pregnant with no plans for kids. Part of it is covering their own ass cause so many people lie about things ( like the amount of naked people that ‘fell’ and Suddenly they’re in the er with something lodged up their butt) August 30, 2021 at 11:42PM