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/u/Gladiator_Fembot on what kind of attraction(s) do you experience?

As someone who appreciates the gym. I do like me some thicc fit people. They're so pretty. August 24, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/scrambledeggsroyale on Reading this image makes me think I might be asexual I've done all the stuff on the bottom, but in reflection I've never felt the top one. I'm also completely ok with never having any sexual intimacy in a relationship.

be me, recently come to terms that I am demisexual see this post has never seen a person and had the urge to have sex with them, only had a willingness in the hypothetical situation that someone I was already dating asked am now confused August 24, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/Vervayda on As kids, did you guys ever play "house"? And if so what did play as?

I have 11 cousins on my mom's side, we played house ALL the time! I was definitely one of the kids and never wanted to be a parent! August 24, 2021 at 11:46PM

/u/01000010011001011100 on What is your opinion / How do you deal with sexual songs?

But I do pay attention to the lyrics August 24, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/ral365 on As kids, did you guys ever play "house"? And if so what did play as?

Oh I think all little kids have played house at some point. I used to play it with my sisters and cousins. We’d take turns between being the “mommy” and the “baby.” We also used our baby dolls and American Girl dolls as kids sometimes. August 24, 2021 at 11:40PM

/u/ablueowl on *Cries as a sex-averse heteroromantic ace woman* (Disclaimer: I am NOT mocking allosexual men for having these VERY VALID needs)

Yeah I recently read the article and it was nice to see that not all the gestures of desire mentioned were necessarily sexual. And I'm always open to more studies (as long as they're peer-reviewed and intellectually solid), it was sad to read that men's sexual desire has usually been ignored in research. I definitely don't agree with the traditional dynamic mentioned in the article, with men mainly expressing and performing gestures of desire in a relationship. I would definitely want a more equal dynamic in my relationship and would have no personal issues with expressing and showing love for a male partner. I agree with your issues with the study though, and I'd like to see non-heterosexual relationships (including aces' relationships) studied as well. I also understand what you meant about broader cultural issues being a factor, I don't think gendered norms and expectations are healthy and certainly not in interpersonal relationships (like someone havin...

/u/ratwithareddit on As kids, did you guys ever play "house"? And if so what did play as?

We would constantly mix-match shit. It was house+three random shows/movies/whatever we liked at the time. I usually ended up being the random mage/Jedi/centaur?? that was just there. Nobody knew why, I was just part of the family. Very fun lol. August 24, 2021 at 11:39PM