I love this community. Thank you very much. I sure will do that. I only talked to him about if it was okay and boundaries but never about the future and how comfortable he is with the situation in a long-term context. I'm very grateful for every single reply here, they helped so much with respecting myself but I think yours is one of the best! Thank you, have a very nice week :) August 24, 2021 at 12:04AM

yay! followed you, i'm the one with the cute pug August 24, 2021 at 12:01AM

I think that’s a really common response to have to something that you don’t understand or personally know someone going through it. The big difference is that you questioned your own experience and then worked to understand it in whatever way resonated with you. The way you’ve tried to process it is actually exactly what I look for in dating situations with allos! So you get a big A+ in my book August 24, 2021 at 12:01AM

I suspect I'm favorable or indifferent, but I don't have the experience to know for sure August 24, 2021 at 12:00AM

When looking at their basic definitions they do seem to cancel each other out …… Maybe simplify it to : Bi- ace, Pan-ace, Het-ace, Gay-ace etc ( ace/ asexual whatever is preferable) That way it would be more ambiguous, the Bi for example could be referring to aesthetic/ romantic/ sensual or sexual attraction. Without it sounding contradictory. This is just my opinion I have no idea if there is a proper term/ definition. Good luck I hope you figure it out. : ) August 23, 2021 at 11:58PM

Oh nice! It's wonderful to see positive Asexuality representation and education! Thanks for letting us know! August 23, 2021 at 11:57PM

I would imagine "demi(allo)sexuality" and "gray(allo)sexuality" are a thing. I'm actually not sure why the (allo) part is left out, since otherwise, those sexualities don't specify to whom the person might be attracted—just the conditions of their attraction. August 23, 2021 at 11:56PM