Solution: get a dog or 🐈🐕 But seriously if someone won't accept you for who you are they're probably not the right person for you anyways you will find someone who will accept you and not care that you are sex repulsed as someone who is the same I have worried about that before but I have come to the conclusion that if they don't accept you then they aren't good for you or the right person for you, you'll find someone for the meantime just remember to love yourself 😊❤️ May 23, 2021 at 12:01AM

Libido may give you a sexual desire, it's as simple as that w you may get turned on sometimes and That's perfectly normal to get such feelings as an asexual even if you're not taking hormones, but you know your boundaries and what you want so don't worry libido won't make you do things cross those barriers May 23, 2021 at 12:00AM

I think I might be somewhere in that second group. May 22, 2021 at 11:59PM

Yeah that pretty much confirms I’m ace. I first found out that something was different when I was trying to quit masturbation and literally everyone had it strongly connected to porn and talked about avoiding anything sexual in movies and stuff to not trigger it. I eventually put two and two together that something else had been triggering arousal for me and that it was actually a sexual feeling. And then I saw someone mention they were asexual while wanting to marry, and then I said something like “why would you want to marry if you’re asexual” and they said that romantic attraction was different from sexual attraction, and that’s pretty much what made me look into it. I was trying to figure out if my libido was just being weird or if that was a symptom of me being ace. May 22, 2021 at 11:58PM

Lol. And I just got back from having chocolate a moment ago. :P May 22, 2021 at 11:54PM

Oh good you feel good about the label now! Just remember you will always be valid, you don't owe anyone an explanation and you can change your mind always! Just make sure to listen to your heart! May 22, 2021 at 11:46PM

I understand, mine were very unsupportive in regards to my mental health and I moved out at age 16 to study. I'm 24 now and pretty much no contact with any family members, only doing a short phone call every few months or so. Put value in your choice when it comes to letting people into or out of your life, and keep in mind that there are people out there who can relate to you, appreciate you and help you - be it online or IRL -, it doesn't have to be family. More often than not, the strongest bonds will be the ones you create; the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb! May 22, 2021 at 11:42PM