I honestly have no clue anymore, most of the time if I find peace its only temporary... but thank you. I appreciate the help April 25, 2021 at 12:00AM

It is brushed off by exclusionists,they are creating a paradox by saying that certain sexualities(especially asexuality,bisexuality,pansexuality etc.) and romantic interests aren't welcomed in the LGBT,which only creates more separation.These people became what they swore to destroy. Can't talk for the whole community since ,haven't met everybody on the ace or aro spectrum,but it feels like the asexual community,at least here on reddit ,it's very welcoming and warm and fun.To me at least ,the asexual community feels like a bunch of old people playing a very intense match of cards(unrelated). It's nasty how people would just tell you 'no' and not even listen to what you have to say,they don't evwn want to try and see any other possibility.Personally,I don't have the patience to deal with those people.At the end of the day you need to be contwnt with yourself,there's no need to explain yourself to people that hate for fun. And your ex boyfriend?If...

I feel the same way in a way but then again I’ve never had a real prolonged kiss with anyone so I might love it. April 24, 2021 at 11:57PM

Took a long time. I knew I preferred long-distance relationships to nearby ones. I knew I had a bad habit of sabotaging relationships that went on more than 2-3 weeks. The few that went on longer, I was totally fine if they were seeing someone else on the side, the more often the better actually. Finally coming to the realization that "Holy Crap... I just DON'T WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP AT ALL!" was a shock and liberated me from the guilt of not making more of an effort to find the 'right person' to settle down with. April 24, 2021 at 11:56PM

I kinda figured, yeah. I would say I get that kind of urge once in a while, though I can usually pinpoint a specific reason for it. Honestly though you're probably right that it's a little bit of graysexuality April 24, 2021 at 11:56PM

> It's almost like our friendship was just a filler for them until they met their S/O's, and now that they have them, they no longer need me. Honestly, it sounds to me like you're pushing your friends away with this kind of toxic attitude. April 24, 2021 at 11:52PM

I really needed that actually. I feel like people get really obsessed with boxes (myself included, admittedly), so this is really nice to hear April 24, 2021 at 11:52PM