Hello all you lovely randomers, I’m looking for some advice about a girl I’ve been seeing and I’m hoping an unbiased opinion from the internet might be able to help. So here’s the story. I’m a M28 and I’ve been talking to this F25 everyday since 1st January via messenger apps. We knew of each other already but hadn’t ever met up before or spoke in years. We get along really well when chatting and talk all the time. I don’t think there’s been a day since we started talking that we’ve not spoken to each other. We’ve met up roughly about 10 or more times at the moment but all of those occasions it’s just been for a walk round a park due to COVID restrictions. Nothings happened between us other than a few kisses again due to COVID. But we have talked about spending the night together etc exchanged flirty messages. She works a lot and doesn’t get a lot of free time which I understand makes it difficult to meet up. But I’ve recently discovered that there could potentially be another guy ...

I’m (20m dfw) in the past month I’ve made plans for 5 dates with different people and actually went on 0 of them. We always make the plans and then the day or night before they go ghost or they change their mind on what their looking for. I really just want to be around someone else and have a good time and I can’t even get that Submitted April 23, 2021 at 11:49PM I’m (20m dfw) in the past month I’ve made plans for 5 dates with different people and actually went on 0 of them. We always make the plans and then the day or night before they go ghost or they change their mind on what their looking for. I really just want to be around someone else and have a good time and I can’t even get that

So at my gym there is a pretty woman who is very focused while training and has earphones. I've had the opportunity to every now and then say "hey how are you?" and into my own training. she does got my attention and i just don't find a way to approach, maybe say something here and there so that could lead to having a space and time where we could talk more. any advice? Submitted April 23, 2021 at 11:51PM So at my gym there is a pretty woman who is very focused while training and has earphones. I've had the opportunity to every now and then say "hey how are you?" and into my own training. she does got my attention and i just don't find a way to approach, maybe say something here and there so that could lead to having a space and time where we could talk more. any advice?

I am 22F dating a 25M. We met back in October and were dating/hooking up pretty casually from Nov-Jan. We “broke up” mid January because from my end it didn’t really seem like he was at a place in his life to be seeing someone. From then til about early/mid March we did not speak at all. Back in March, he reached out to me asking to hang out and I was a bit reluctant, but I said yes. Had an amazing night with him and we’ve been seeing each other much more formally since then. We both have introduced each other to the others immediate family and his siblings have told me how happy they are that I’m with him and that I make him very happy. He is a very loving guy and is never afraid to be affectionate towards me. Pretty much BF/GF at this point. About one week ago, I picked him up from a family function because he was very drunk and could not drive home. On the car ride, he was rambling and told me he loved me. I asked him to repeat himself just to make sure I heard him correctly, and...

For reference, I am a 21 yo female and he is a 20 yo male. He ghosted for a week due to a legitimate reason—I honestly was not expecting to hear from him and was okay with that because he was going through. He messaged me 2 days ago basically saying he’s getting help and was ready to try talking again. So, we talk and it’s always been the type of messaging where it’s inconsistent. It’s starting to bother me, which maybe that’s not justified, but I feel like it’s just weird because he is being inconsistent and also has not bothered to call me. I mentioned to him today that he seemed really busy, and he just said he works a lot. THEN he brought up that he “lost” his dog so he was stressed out. An hour later he found his dog. In general, I feel like he’s not interested, but if he wanted sex wouldn’t he be pushing for a date/call? Submitted April 23, 2021 at 11:56PM For reference, I am a 21 yo female and he is a 20 yo male. He ghosted for a week due to a legitimate reason—I honest...

I do not encourage dating someone just to make yourself happy by any means. But whenever I’ve had a partner it’s like the pain was practically gone. However, most of my relationships have been extremely short-lived and I’ve never made it past the honeymoon stage, which could explain why. I really want to stop looking at being in a relationship as an escape route from feeling miserable inside. Submitted April 24, 2021 at 12:08AM I do not encourage dating someone just to make yourself happy by any means. But whenever I’ve had a partner it’s like the pain was practically gone. However, most of my relationships have been extremely short-lived and I’ve never made it past the honeymoon stage, which could explain why. I really want to stop looking at being in a relationship as an escape route from feeling miserable inside.

22M I'm not really sure how to take this. Im working on myself, getting in shape and I try my best to keep the conversation interesting but I guess I haven't gotten anything and its getting heavy. Im not really sure whats so wrong with me that I cant date anyone. Submitted April 24, 2021 at 12:09AM 22M I'm not really sure how to take this. Im working on myself, getting in shape and I try my best to keep the conversation interesting but I guess I haven't gotten anything and its getting heavy.Im not really sure whats so wrong with me that I cant date anyone.