Hello guys, I had been texting with a girl, that i see every day at the railway station. We had a nice conversation for 4 or 5 days and then she stopped texting. I wrote after 2 days If everything is ok and she didn’t answer. So after 4 days i wrote to a classmate of her and a friend from me if she knows anything why she doesnt answer(she did not know anything) but then she spoke to her and texted me that shes not interested, i was totally fine with that and didn’t expected anything more. But than the girl actually texted me that shes very sorry that she didnt answer, but that shes not interested at the moment and she really wanted to say me that earlier but didnt know how. So i really want to try to get together with her because she looks perfect and has a pretty nice character we even share some hobbies and interests and i really thought she was interested in me too because she always looked at me etc. . So my question is now should i try it because she said shes not interested at t...

I’m starting to worry I don’t feel sexual attraction. I can feel attracted to guys instantly but it’s very rare, and they are usually super hot long hair beards etc. But generally I get to know a guy and all of a sudden they grow on me. I start getting an aroused feeling around them, it feels nice, but it’s not like a ‘fuck me now’ urge. It gives me energy, I flirt and tease but it’s not an instant urge to fuck. I’m confused. Submitted April 10, 2021 at 12:16AM I’m starting to worry I don’t feel sexual attraction.I can feel attracted to guys instantly but it’s very rare, and they are usually super hot long hair beards etc.But generally I get to know a guy and all of a sudden they grow on me. I start getting an aroused feeling around them, it feels nice, but it’s not like a ‘fuck me now’ urge. It gives me energy, I flirt and tease but it’s not an instant urge to fuck. I’m confused.

Beautiful 💜 Thank you 💜 April 09, 2021 at 11:59PM

Ok here’s what I’m guessing, based on what you put: You’re asexual - you have no sexual attraction You’re heteromantic (or homoromantic if you’re male, I kinda assumed you were female based on wording) - you’re romantically attracted to men You have aesthetic attraction to both sexes Making-out is too sexual an act for you. But you don’t seem sex-repulsed, as you might consider having sex with an SO. Again, these are my guesses based on your descriptions, but sexuality I believe is something you need to figure out for yourself. April 09, 2021 at 11:54PM

Ye ye! April 09, 2021 at 11:51PM

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Thanks! :D April 09, 2021 at 11:48PM