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Does anyone else feel like they’re in constant self destruct mode?

I feel like every time things are going well with somebody, I always find a way to overthink it. And then, I force myself to want too much too fast and decide to figure out a way to get them to end it. For example, I’ve been talking to someone for a month. I noticed some changes in how they’re communicating with me, I act mildly clingy, and immediately decide they don’t want me. Then I send a message asking if they want something or not (knowing full well it’s too soon to know and definitely not a good time to ask). That way, I can go back to square one guilt free. It’s a constant cycle and I’m not sure how to break it. I’m in the process of finding a new therapist here, but in the mean time, am I the only one that acts like this? Any advice (other than therapy)? Submitted February 01, 2021 at 12:08AM I feel like every time things are going well with somebody, I always find a way to overthink it. And then, I force myself to want too much too fast and decide to figure out a way t...

How would women define a "mature mentality"?

I was dating a girl for a couple months and she cut things off saying she didn't feel I had enough mature mentality and I'm not sure what that means since she didn't elaborate? Submitted February 01, 2021 at 12:15AM I was dating a girl for a couple months and she cut things off saying she didn't feel I had enough mature mentality and I'm not sure what that means since she didn't elaborate?

Why is that i'm comfortable talking to ladies i don't like.

Can any guy give me some advice about how i can muster up courage to talk to ladies i like, i don't know for what reason i can flirt to ladies i don't even know and i don't like and for some reasons there are ladies that falls for me that i don't even like why is this. And my balls just hides when it comes to the ladies i like the hell. My guess is that i'm afraid to commit and show my true self or introduce my life to them is that it? Submitted February 01, 2021 at 12:17AM Can any guy give me some advice about how i can muster up courage to talk to ladies i like, i don't know for what reason i can flirt to ladies i don't even know and i don't like and for some reasons there are ladies that falls for me that i don't even like why is this. And my balls just hides when it comes to the ladies i like the hell.My guess is that i'm afraid to commit and show my true self or introduce my life to them is that it?

/u/Foxstar06 on A dating site huh

That pic is awfully saucy for being an "asexual app" February 01, 2021 at 12:00AM

/u/coffeeandpeonies on Sex favorable asexual bingo! Have fun!

I seriously just had this revelation the other day. You aren't alone. 😅 January 31, 2021 at 11:59PM

/u/Keegszzz on Not sure how to tell my parents, any advice? Do I even need to at all?

Asking what they think of the lgbtq community then asking a bit later what they know about asexuality. January 31, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/MTelloC on Hello There

I heard someone describe being asexual like this: when you see an absolute beautiful person, but you don't think they would be more attractive naked on top or under you, that's possibly because you don't feel sexual attraction. January 31, 2021 at 11:46PM