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I've heard of women ghosting and still still liking/watching a guys instagram, but I just had a girl who ghosted me 5 months ago decide to follow me outright. Why would a woman do this?

Basically the title. Im confused honestly. Submitted January 07, 2021 at 11:25PM Basically the title. Im confused honestly.

How do I set boundaries when things are moving way too fast with the person I’m dating?

I [20F] have been on 2 dates with someone [22M], I’ve told him a few times that I don’t want to rush into things and that I’d just like to talk, go on a few dates and see how things play out between us. On both of our dates he’s tried to kiss me when I’ve told him that I’d rather not as we haven’t been dating long. Tonight I was on video call with him and he referred to me as his girlfriend and was talking about buying me an expensive gift. Overall I think that he’s really rushing into things for someone I’ve known for 3 weeks, he messages constantly and calls when I say I’m busy. How do I tell him this? I’m not sure how to go about setting clear boundaries and honestly this is quite a turn off for me. Would it be bad to tell him in a text that I want to take a step back from dating him? I really like him as a person but he’s making me very uncomfortable, should I tell him that I just want to be friends for a while first? Submitted January 07, 2021 at 11:27PM I [20F] have been ...

Got (45M) a like from a (43F) on OLD. Should I initiate messaging?

She has 3 photos, the first one doesn’t make her look very good at all, the second one does make her attractive (no idea how recent), and the third is between the first two in attractiveness but it’s her holding up roses and what is clearly a Valentine’s Day card. Her profile doesn’t have any other information except basics like she doesn’t smoke, has kids, drinks occasionally, etc. 🤷🏼‍♂️ Submitted January 07, 2021 at 11:29PM She has 3 photos, the first one doesn’t make her look very good at all, the second one does make her attractive (no idea how recent), and the third is between the first two in attractiveness but it’s her holding up roses and what is clearly a Valentine’s Day card.Her profile doesn’t have any other information except basics like she doesn’t smoke, has kids, drinks occasionally, etc. 🤷🏼‍♂️

The one that got away

Okay so about two years ago me and my close friend group who went in the same class at the time where havin a little party and we got a bit buzzed. We went out on a walk and me and this girl in my friend group who i secretly liked actually kissed me and said she liked me. I got surprised as i thought she was in another leauge and we went for a long walk and confessed our feelings for eachother. The next week was amazing and a bit awkward cus we were in the same class etc. We talked a lot in school and texted eachother nonstop for about 3 months. Suddenly we got cold feet because if we started dating for real and things didnt turn out well our friend group would be ruined. She pushed the decision more than I did to end it. I was feeling really bad about it for the next months, especially when she started talking bout other guys. (she’s really attractive and she’d only been single for 3 months when she made the move on me and guys were on her instantly). So she ended up getting a boyfr...

Dating for the first time

I have interest in a woman who can easily get along with me. There are some things that both me and her share in common. However, there is something in her that made me interested to pursue her to more than just friends. I have plans on dating her but unable to do so because of lockdown restrictions. What are your advices when I am going for a date? So at least I won’t be a dead stick when we would actually date. Thank you and have a good day! Submitted January 07, 2021 at 11:34PM I have interest in a woman who can easily get along with me. There are some things that both me and her share in common. However, there is something in her that made me interested to pursue her to more than just friends. I have plans on dating her but unable to do so because of lockdown restrictions. What are your advices when I am going for a date? So at least I won’t be a dead stick when we would actually date. Thank you and have a good day!

How to approach a girl u only know via instagram

I knew this girl from high school and we spoke maybe like twice but I follow her on instagram I find her really beautiful and don't know how to start to speak to her. Should I in the first place? Submitted January 07, 2021 at 11:34PM I knew this girl from high school and we spoke maybe like twice but I follow her on instagram I find her really beautiful and don't know how to start to speak to her. Should I in the first place?

Is “partner” of 1 year and a half ghosting me?

Hello Reddit, I (24f) have been seeing this guy (24m) for nearly a year and a half. We go everyday texting and things have been good. Two days ago, I ask him if he has any plans for today 1/7/21 and he said he doesn’t, so I tell him that I want to see him and that I’ll make the plans. He agrees and he asks me what was I planning. I fell asleep and replied the next morning. No response. Two hours later I sent him a meme and once again no response. I assume he’s busy and he’ll text me back later and he doesn’t. Around midnight I text him a row of angry emojis and nothing. Today at noon and the day we have plans, I texted him “I said row of angry emojis and nothing. I called him and it rang the normal amount and no answer. What’s going on???? Submitted January 07, 2021 at 11:39PM Hello Reddit,I (24f) have been seeing this guy (24m) for nearly a year and a half. We go everyday texting and things have been good. Two days ago, I ask him if he has any plans for today 1/7/21 and he s...