I would wear that outfit - looks so cool! I wish I had the patience to learn to draw. January 03, 2021 at 12:05AM

Never been in a relationship myself and this is definitely a fear I’d have about being in one, bc I’m afraid I’d put my own needs second and feel compelled to comprise etc, but at the same time, I’m a strong-willed person and clearly know what I want and what I don’t, and where I can compromise. And since anything sexual is just something I don’t ever want (my dealbreaker I suppose), I couldn’t be in a relationship with anyone who needed that from me- I just personally can’t bend on that one thing for anyone. So I guess it probably depends on what you can personally tolerate or feel comfortable with... if it’s a dealbreaker for you, I would think it’s better to just not be in a relationship that causes you a great deal of stress... but that’s something that only you can know what feels good/alright to you, so it’s something that you’d need to really just think about, and communicate (preferably before getting into a relationship) with the other person January 03, 2021 at 12:04A...

while i don't think they were ace since i read they called themselves like that because the band members were all single at the time Now that's a bit dramatic. But hey! Might give a listen just for the laughs. January 03, 2021 at 12:03AM

While I honestly think that the majority of the community is cool, it kinda sucks that there are some of people who embody this mentality. It really shouldn't matter if your sexual orientation isn't the flagship for discrimination based on sexual orientation, but to some people it does. I would like to say though that this sentiment seems to be the minority opinion. I generally see positivity in most LGBTQ+ spaces. I guess the shitty stuff is kinda easier to remember, unfortunately January 03, 2021 at 12:02AM

Congrats on being out and proud! Your outfit is to die for I love it 😍 January 03, 2021 at 12:02AM

That's it! January 03, 2021 at 12:01AM

Thanks! It's blackmilk blackmilk I got it in October tho, it might be sold out. January 03, 2021 at 12:00AM