Lack of sexual attraction, with almost no idea about it That's all being ace is :) Low perception about attraction directed to him There was a study that showed the humans have a less than 50% chance of accurately determining whether another human is flirting with them - iirc, it was a study on heterosexually oriented folks but I don't have it at hand I'm thinking that I'm sex positive heteroromantic ace, but there are the nagging thoughts in my head, mostly blaming me for not trying hard enough, or worse using asexuality as a hard to penetrate wall to protect my fragile ego so I can say that I'm not interested in relationships before I'm rejected a lot while trying to find one so I can confirm my doubts about myself. If you don't experience sexual attraction, you're ace. You don't seem like you particularly care whether you're in a relationship or not, so I'd think the latter half is unlikely December 06, 2020 at 12:04AM

save up and pay for the online course yourself? I mean, saving up $100 shouldn't be that hard. December 06, 2020 at 12:02AM

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Aro is aromantic December 06, 2020 at 12:01AM

you do know that you don't need to have sex to have kids, right? but yeah, mothers do be like that. my mom is totally ace (... I wasn't exactly in her plans), yet she swears having kids is like living a part of life nothing else can compare to -- that you'd be missing something if you didn't. ... one day I went full "well, there's other things people say exactly the same: drugs, sex, alcohol, lots of stuff, really" (... she really is anti-drugs BTW, so I had to explain that it was just an example LOL). ... I'm ace and I don't know if I'll have kids -- I used to think nature would call one day and I'd go "you know what, I want kids" but... as time passes, life seems to not say that XD (... doesn't help that my prerequisite for having kids is having a stable job, and yet half a million years later I'm still trying to finish my degree) December 06, 2020 at 12:00AM

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