my last was almost 4 years ago Submitted November 22, 2020 at 12:06AM my last was almost 4 years ago

I see a lot of them mention on their profiles - " a person who doesn't take themselves seriously" What context are we talking about here? Submitted November 22, 2020 at 12:09AM I see a lot of them mention on their profiles - " a person who doesn't take themselves seriously"What context are we talking about here?

I'm a 24 year old asian male (chinese, hispanic and filipino descent). I'm attractive, I look like a kpop star. Lot of girls hit on me... well, not that direct/aggressive. They just mostly stare at me with their puppy eyes and a smile, only few come at me. But all my life I've never dated, kissed or f***ed any girl yet; and I think I won't ever be. It's because most people dissapoint me. Of course, there were girls that I've liked. I've been through the "getting to know" stage with them but that's about it. I never go beyond that point as I often get dissapointed with them the more I get to know them. People have these normalized senseless antics that's just... ugghhh. It's such a turn off for me. So here's my dilemna: I know that I can handle being single all my life... for now. Statistics shows that people, get depressed later in life after focusing only on their jobs/careers and not having to start a family. And yes, we humans ...

I've been chatting for a couple of months with a dude i met online. The first 3/4 months of quarantine we weren't working so we could chat ✨properly✨ A few months ago, he started working in a supermarket at nights (between 11pm to 7am). At that time, i sleep because I work during the day ofc. He literally sleeps all the time he is not working, which i find suspicious¿? He also sleeps his two days off, all day. I told him i would stay awake in those days so he doesn't have to change his sleep schedule but at the end, i'm awake at 4am waiting for him to answer but SURPISE, he fell asleep. I feel i can't complain/tell anything because every time i tried to talk about it he makes me feel bad about it, and guilty for asking for too much. He insist on that he is only sleeping, not f#ucking other girls, which i believe, but i don't think he is putting a minimal effort. I tried to shut him down a couple of times, but he says he loves me and bla bla bla. Is it reasonabl...

thats if the person is promoting a product, read em rules November 22, 2020 at 12:05AM

Yup. I meant, like, if you can get pregnant and have sex, then be ready to get pregnant. And if you have sex at all, unless they other person has been tested and proven to be healthy, be ready to have an STD. Protection has a really small failure chance, but it has one! I didn't mean that you should take care of a child you don't want. That unfair bith for the parents and the child. You could put them on adoption. November 21, 2020 at 11:58PM

I really don't think that's fair. Just because most of us don't have a super strong urge for sex doesn't mean others in the world don't. Despite the horror stories, if you're taking bc perfectly (or using something like the implant or IUD), getting pregnant is highly, highly unlikely. I, for one, would NOT be prepared to have a kid. Or at the very, very least, keep one. I do want to try and have a sex life, though. IF I were to become pregnant, which would be unlikely but IF, the kid would go up for adoption. It would be a shitty situation all around, but it's also not likely to happen. November 21, 2020 at 11:55PM