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Talking online with a girl (22F) for months, but never met, now not sure if I (25M) even want to meet in person/continue interacting with her

TLDR; Met a girl (girlfriend?) online, talked with her for ~3 months now, slowly losing interest, had plans to meet next week for Thanksgiving, found out she hasn't been quarantining, don't really want to interact/associate myself with her anymore. I met a girl online around mid August, we talked a bunch and things seemed to be going well (similar interests, good conversation, communication, etc), but we never met up. This is mainly due to me currently living at home with my mother and father (who are high risk for COVID-19, and my area has high incidences of COVID) and not wishing to take any chances. She was respectful of that and we decided to not see other people and just interact online (online messaging and video chatting). Since the pandemic started, I've been working from home and really not going outside unless it's for a walk or to pick up my grocery orders and take all the necessary precautions (mask, no face touching, social distancing, etc). I was ok wit...

Jealous of my sister in law

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now, and just recently we’ve been spending more time with his sister and her boyfriend who have been dating for 10 years (we’re all around 24/23 years). My boyfriend has been off work for a while now and his sister has a lot of time off because she study’s and works part time so they spend a lot of time together. We didn’t initially get on at the start, she’s the youngest of the family, and quite spoilt. If there’s an issue she’s always in the right, so there’s no real point in arguing/talking with her. If she’s got an issue with me, she goes straight to my boyfriend and will say ‘oh she didn’t reply to my Snapchat’ or ‘what was wrong with her she seemed really grumpy’.... I get really annoyed because I have to work, and they go off and do things together like go shopping or go for walks or to appointments while I’m at work. My boyfriend never really lets me know what he’s doing but he might send a snap now and again but to our family group c...

Girl ignoring my last message

I met a girl in a class. Once I talked to her, we shared common things about life and she even asked for my phone number. She sent a "." and I answered her. Since then, we have chatted a lot. She seemed interested, since she asked me about my life. She also liked to make some jokes. Afterwards, I asked her out on a date, for some coffee after class. She said yes and we met outside classroom and went for coffee. After that, I didn't even texted her, she texted me first. She did it the next day, just for casual talking. Sometimes, she didn't just waited for me to answer her, she just messaged me. This kind of messages were for example a picture of what she was doing, or where she was. We tended to text each other and make jokes while we were in class. I was her only friend there, and she was my only friend too. Another day I asked her out for coffee again after class. She said yes and we had a nice talk. I gave her a chocolate for her birthday and she later texted me s...

I tried to ask my neighbor out but I don’t think I was forward enough

So, I (28m) have a new neighbor. We met when I was on a walk with my toddler and my mom. He politely approached us with his sweet chocolate lab, and asked to use a phone because his roommate locked him out of his house. He was really nice and we talked for about twenty minutes until we knew the locksmith was coming. I think I felt flirty vibes and I think he’s single but I haven’t been single in 7 years, and I’m a mom—he probably assumes I’m not single, which is fair. So, as an artist, I painted him a quick portrait of his pup as a housewarming gift. I left a note with it on his door and ended it with “it was nice to meet you—it can be difficult to meet new people during quarantine, so if you ever want to chat, my number is ____” I wanted it to be friendly of course but hoped for a little more. I’ve never been this forward in my life but I don’t think it was forward enough lol. His response was “Hi T, its D from ___. Just wanted to say thank you so much for the watercolor. Its aweso...

Thoughts about this? Mixed feelings..

This girl has gone through some rough things with her ex, and every-time we talk about it gets really emotional. (She got cheated on,and lies were told) So i met this girl through Tinder, we really connected with each other and shared the same humor,style,music pretty much everything. After about 50 days and around 20 ish dates we started getting closer and we were always talking with each other 24/7, one day she told me she no longer wanted to date anyone and wished us to remain as friends because she needed to work on herself and was having it rough, I told her I was looking for something more as friends and confessed the feelings I had for her. After this day I took a week off and met her again, we started having more sex, more intimate things so everything went back to “normal” again but with more boyfriend and girlfriend things. We had super fun “dates” met her best-friend and got close with her too and she told me that her best friend never approved of anyone before so that ...

Why do girls stalk me after they reject me?

So I don't why understand why but after I receive a rejection the girls keep following me (this has happened to me 4 times). They keep weirdly stalking me always watching my insta stories. Now why do they do this? I don't understand it. Why do you want to what I am doing/posting if you are not interested in me? Kinda weird Submitted November 17, 2020 at 10:55PM So I don't why understand why but after I receive a rejection the girls keep following me (this has happened to me 4 times). They keep weirdly stalking me always watching my insta stories. Now why do they do this? I don't understand it. Why do you want to what I am doing/posting if you are not interested in me? Kinda weird

What does it actually mean..don't get attached mean

Soo il keep it short because deep down im fuming, my work partner I casually see, we have fun time to time. After the best time we have ever had together, on the way home from a lovely drive and a nice pit stop( a smoke and play) He decides to say don't get attached. I mean we both have families and that was what I responded with, oh and that I can't text him unless it's to do with work. So I'm so unsure on where this leaves me, hurt to say the least as I do like him a little. He also said when it's time to stop we have to stop, so I then asked if you wanted to stop he just said let's stop talking about it. I saw him last night we did the same thing and again tonight, so if he doesn't want to why does he? And why state do not get attached? Can men smell feeling a mile off? Submitted November 17, 2020 at 11:51PM Soo il keep it short because deep down im fuming, my work partner I casually see, we have fun time to time. After the best time we have ever h...