I can’t forget my latest crush. I recently deleted her of IG since I kept obsessing and need to move on.... sent a Dm that I still think about her and deleted her, to take care and that no reply was needed. But she did reply extensive, which surprised me nicely. But She was like; what are you trying to say (with this) darling? . It was clear what I said in my message, but responded that I wanted her back in my life to get to know each other since the reason for the break was not accurate anymore. But after reading my dm, she went silence now for 3 days. Could she still be thinking what she wants or should I forget about it? Submitted November 01, 2020 at 12:09AM I can’t forget my latest crush. I recently deleted her of IG since I kept obsessing and need to move on.... sent a Dm that I still think about her and deleted her, to take care and that no reply was needed. But she did reply extensive, which surprised me nicely. But She was like; what are you trying to say (with this) da...

It isn’t illegal per se like they won’t put you to jail for being gay(as far as I know), but they won’t recognise gay marriages and all that. I’ve heard of pride parades happing but I’ve never seen one myself. I had to purposely look it up to find out we had pride parades at all. Sh*ttyness asides, personally I’ve been seeing more and more lesbians around. Don’t know if I’m just more aware or they’re starting to come out, but I see a lot of women just being a couple in public. Also Hong Kong will be hosting the 2022 gay games (also had to look that up lol) I’m really excited to see it happen. TL;dr it’s pretty bad but there’s some good stuff happening. I’d say there’s not enough action from the government but that’s probably their last concern right now. November 01, 2020 at 12:05AM

I experience pretty bad sex repulsion and I haven't had sexual trauma either. But what I find odd is that I wasn't sex repulsed until I actually had sex. Up until then I was actually looking forward to having sexual relationships. I've been in two relationships and kept hoping in both that I would grow to enjoy it but I wasn't successful. I'm not sure where the repulsion comes from. I wonder if there's some deep subconscious shit going on where the repulsion is just another way to prevent close relationships (I also suffer from Avoidant Personality Disorder so I have a long history of pushing people away). I feel sad because I don't want to be like this. I tend to have a lot of FOMO. Sometimes I think about wanting to at least try for another relationship, but my brain goes immediately to how much it took to get into a place where I didn't gag during sex (or even kissing). I'm just gonna have to accept that I will forever find intimacy gross. ...

or the f word freedom November 01, 2020 at 12:00AM

You might be biromantic demisexual. October 31, 2020 at 11:51PM

you're right and I'd add that it comes from insecurity. Insecure people and insecure societies. October 31, 2020 at 11:51PM

And aphobic people generalize asexuals, there are some asexuals like me that would have sex only to have kids for example. October 31, 2020 at 11:47PM