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A little love story

It was on April 2012 that they met. She was working her shift at Sonic and he was applying there. She went to the back part of the store and he was sitting there in a green and white button up shirt, cargo shorts, and sneakers. They exchanged greetings and the day went on. He got the job and would be starting soon. They had many shifts together but for now they were just co-workers. Weeks pass and they have gone from co-workers to friends. One day she was complaining about everyone texting her at work and he said "well it's not me, I don't have your number." Without saying anything she reaches into his pocket, puts her number in his phone and puts it back in his pocket. "Well now you do" she says. They started texting each other randomly, just talking about anything and nothing. He starts to feel something for her but he realizes a problem. She was with someone at the moment. But little did he know she didn't really want to be the guy she was with. So h...

Should I not focus on dating and focus on myself?

I want a girlfriend but Im not happy with my life situation. I want to be healthier, further in my career, happier, more social circle, more hobbies etc.. Anyways I think I just answered my own question. It seems like if I even tried right now I wouldn’t be the person I want to be, but I’m 28 and don’t want to leave things to too late. I dunno. Any advice? Submitted September 12, 2020 at 11:49PM I want a girlfriend but Im not happy with my life situation.I want to be healthier, further in my career, happier, more social circle, more hobbies etc..Anyways I think I just answered my own question.It seems like if I even tried right now I wouldn’t be the person I want to be, but I’m 28 and don’t want to leave things to too late.I dunno. Any advice?

Worried I won’t be as attracted to anyone in the future as I was to my ex

Has anyone had this and then found someone they were attracted to? I think this is the last thing that’s stopping me moving on is this intense attraction I had to him. Is it possible to be attracted to someone again equally/more? Submitted September 12, 2020 at 11:54PM Has anyone had this and then found someone they were attracted to? I think this is the last thing that’s stopping me moving on is this intense attraction I had to him. Is it possible to be attracted to someone again equally/more?

Feeling dumb

Are there really one women men out there?? Or do y’all dude always have someone on the side to talk to? Submitted September 12, 2020 at 11:59PM Are there really one women men out there?? Or do y’all dude always have someone on the side to talk to?

I’ve seen people call them “auras” but we each carry our own reality with us.

it’s these realities that struggle to blend or align with one another. Seeing them as orbs or “aruras” is the easiest way to process this concept. avoid people who see “auras.” ​ Im starting to figure that those who chase certain auras are unintentionally chasing those who’s realities are the easiest to purloin. The smaller your aura, the less obsessed you are with ground you stand on. ​ Meaning it’s easiest to indoctrinate you into my reality if yours can fit rather snuggly inside of mine. Avoid girls who just decide they want you without you having even spoken with them. This world is dirty place. People are chasing those who are easiest to adopt. ​ Because to them, in order for things to work, they’ve got to have things the way that they want them. so they refuse to have to compromise pieces of their reality for a partner in this life. They either assume you feel the same, or that you’re just naive. ​ Which is why confusion or fighting occurs, as if you turn out not to be ...

Is she trying to make me jealous?

Is she trying to make me jealous What is she trying? Making me jealous? So ive benn seeing this girl (F24) for 6 Months. We really get along really well and talked about all stuff ( friends, family and so on). She even introduced me to her friends. She told me about her male coworker before. But in recent times she when i ask her about her work day she mentions him more. Even though its just a short message like : Yeah work is fine and my colleague XXX is here too =)). When she send me a photo of him lying at a couch i just responded : hes waiting for you She only said : no were just colleagues I just shrug it off in the past and laughed about it. But now im feeling a bit jealous Im not sure how i should feel about it. Edit: when i was talking about other woman in my past she just cut me off and said she doesnt want to listen Submitted September 13, 2020 at 12:01AM Is she trying to make me jealousWhat is she trying? Making me jealous?So ive benn seeing this girl (F24) for ...

When a women is interested in me, idk what to say to them. I struggle with talking to girls but not guys. Also when I post a personal ad and get some message I get really clingy.

Is this some sort of attachment thing? I don’t know why I’m struggling. Is this some sort of anxiety? I [M19] haven’t had the best relationship with girls, I respect them and grew up amongst them. I was raised by my mother, sisters, aunts and grandma. I have never been able to talk to them or know what they are like because they often say I’m annoying because I’m singing all the time lol. I don’t know what to say to them, or even start talking to them. Have never had a conversation with my mother. I have been there for my sisters when they had breakdowns or anything of that sort. Worst relationship with father imaginable, we’re always arguing. I stay away from everyone because I’m scared of arguments. Anyways I don’t have a lot of female friends I have always been scared to talk to the girls in high school because I’m scared they might say that I’m annoying or talk shit. It happened to me in middle school so I don’t want to repeat the process. Come to college and I have been distant...