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/u/thanarae on ACE REPRESENTATION!!

I am still figuring out exactly what category I fit into as well. I almost have a sex repulsion. It takes me a lot of thinking and talking myself into it to do it. My husband basically let's me know he is ready and a few days later I convince myself to do it. It physically feels good but it's not at all what I desire. I like cuddling and kissing and I do fall in love but it's intellectual based and not physical. My husband was getting really offended that I wasn't sleeping with him and I basically sat him down and explained that I was asexual. That I didn't want or need sex. I would never initiate it and that if he wanted it I would be willing to give it to him but he had to give me time to prepare. It took a bit of patience and understanding on each end but we kinda got a flow working now. We don't have sex very often. I even gave him the option to sleep with someone else because I understand he has needs. He told me no that he is fine as long as I love him an...

/u/Robert-Nekita on Hello any gamers here. What do you play?

Divinity Original Sin 2 is pretty damn good, a shame it is incredibly long since I started drifting from it around the 90 hour mark but I do want to play it again one day. September 10, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/Wilmzies on Advice on how to write an asexual protagonist

Thanks, this was really helpful September 10, 2020 at 11:51PM

/u/Robert-Nekita on Hello any gamers here. What do you play?

I like to play a huge variety. I have played in my lifetime over 300 games and I am not even 18 yet (just 7 months away). I have a PC with dozens of games unplayed. A PS4 with yet again unplayed games and I will get a Nintendo Switch next month which means my library will grow once again. Recently I have been playing Fall Guys, Castlevania Symphony of The Night, A Plague Tale Innocence and Crash Bandicoot : Warped. I could talk about video games all day. Unfortunately I don’t play online multiplayer much with the exception of Rocket League or Fall Guys. September 10, 2020 at 11:50PM

/u/Yunagen on Hello any gamers here. What do you play?

You don't stop eh? September 10, 2020 at 11:48PM

/u/distressedguest on Are you asexual? – FAQ

I need some help. Me (26 F) and my partner (29 M) have been together for 2.5 years, but we have not started to have sex or had any sexual contact. As time has progressed, I've seen signs that may point to him being asexual, but he has adamantly denied being asexual and says he is just uncomfortable and anxious about starting sex, the unknown of how it'll go, and it's something he knows he needs to get over. He denies having sex repulsion and I know he masturbates on occasion. He claims to be sexually attracted to me yet has never initiated sexual ideas or actions. He finds the idea of me touching his genitals or seeing me naked as uncomfortable. Is it possible that someone gradually 'becomes' more comfortable with those things with more contact, or is this a sign of asexuality that will probably not change? The furthest we have gone thus far is cuddling with some belly skin contact, and we're trying to get him more used to holding me under the shirt, skin acros...

/u/Ninniecorn on I've seen ace dragon drawings, but what about clay?

Your dragon is sooo adorable, I love it! September 10, 2020 at 11:46PM