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Does she still love me?

So we got into an argument a few days ago because she has been acting weird and it doesn’t help that I overthink. Basically it was about what’s going on and why she is acting so differently. Like leaving me on read, not saying she loves me after I say it and just sending smile faces. Also just sending blank picture back and forth on snap and just not able to hold a conversation anymore. During the argument she told me to just block her and I kept saying no because I wanted to work it out but then it lead her to telling me to not message her all the next day. So I did what she asked and didn’t message her untill sometime the next day I messaged her like I’m sad about all this I need to removed you odd stuff because it makes me sad seeing you ignore me and what not but told her she can text me whenever on my phone. So she texted me about 30 mins later saying stuff like she’s sorry and how she was crying and what not and we worked it out but the it instantly went back to being left on re...

Matching with quarantine neighbor?!

Just came across a cute girl in my neighborhood on a dating app (hinge). I’ve seen her on walks around and working out. We say hi, smile and wave whenever we see each other, and have had a brief conversation, but don’t really know each other. Thoughts on creative ways to message her in the match and how to approach this? Thanks friends! Submitted April 25, 2020 at 12:01AM Just came across a cute girl in my neighborhood on a dating app (hinge). I’ve seen her on walks around and working out. We say hi, smile and wave whenever we see each other, and have had a brief conversation, but don’t really know each other. Thoughts on creative ways to message her in the match and how to approach this? Thanks friends!

How do I tell if he likes me or just worries for my safety?

So as seen in the title I know this guy (17) who I kinda like (I really don't know what love feels like :/). He's helped me get through some... sad stuff (see my other posts but I'm getting off topic). Now I'd like to point out that I'm a 13F and he's a 17M. We met through my sister (15) on Xbox (I use my sister's account as I don't have one -.-) and chatted through Instagram. The reason I want to know if he likes me is because he is willing to talk at 3am with me about stuff that happened till 4am even though he's tired. When we've talked in dms he's also said he'll go up to his friends (squad we met through) and defend me. I also want to point out we have talked about them behind their backs (jerk move but them being 4-5 years older are huge jerks to me and have made me full on sob in my bathroom because I got so mad). He also says the only reason he's still friends with them is because he can't avoid them (friends of friends)....

I think my female friend was hitting on me and I was oblivious?

So I’ve had this female friend for the last few years now . She’s 24 and I’m 26. She’s not back looking but we’ve only been just friends since we’ve known each other. However, last Friday we had some drinks at her house. Around the end of the night when everyone left, I went to use the washroom and she was in there. I asked her to hurry cause I have to pee. Around 2 minutes later she called to me and said that I could go now. So I went to use the washroom and when I turned on the light, I saw her hiding behind the door. She then told me to just go she doesnt want to move. I told her to leave but she kept insisting over and over she won’t look and just go. I felt weird having her literally 1foot away so I told her to keep her back to me so I could go pee. I then looked in the reflection of the mirror and I caught her staring at my d*ck. I then left and told her I couldn’t go with her right there. She then said “just come back inside and shut the door”. I told her it’s too weird having ...

Based on the majority of women, a guy being financially dependent on and living with his mom past a certain age is not only bad but something worth judging no matter what kind of person he is.

So the guys who has no motivation to do better is slightly worse than the guy in the same position with a plan (me). When a woman finds out that the guy she likes is still in this situation of dependence then all other good characteristics don’t help out. Now, as someone who is motivated to lose weight and finally be physically appealing I’m wondering if there’s a point other than health reasons. Because I do see myself as a good looking guy now with chubbiness and believe I’d be great with a toned body. There’s chances I’ll be good enough as a hook up, to flirt with, get approached. As someone who doesn’t want meaningless things I don’t know how to tell a girl off. I’d love to be able to explain my life situation but also feel like I’ll be laughed at. Submitted April 25, 2020 at 12:10AM So the guys who has no motivation to do better is slightly worse than the guy in the same position with a plan (me).When a woman finds out that the guy she likes is still in this situation of...

Advice on Asking for Someone's Number While Social Distancing

TL;DR: I (24M) want to give a waitress (26F)a note asking for her number. I'm doing this because due to the pandemic she working behind the counter but not actually at the counter. I know it's rather juvenile to do something like this but given the circumstances of the pandemic and the current situation at the restaurant I feel like it's my best bet (Open to suggestions). So a bit of background. I've been wanting to ask this waitress out for awhile, just as I grew the confidence to do so. The pandemic hit and the restaurant closed down for a month, I thought to myself "That's it. I missed my chance." But miraculously the restaurant re-opened (with a strict schedule) and I went to restaurant twice and found her working on one of the days. However rather than normally waiting tables, she is behind the counter taking in order and passing them to the chef (not really interacting with patrons). However, whenever I visit, she always makes an attempt to tell me...

People, I'm sure this has been said before but don't ghost. Just don't!

It's horrible. I've been ghosted for this girl today and I'm feeling like shit. It's the first person I was interested in for a long time and now she just did this to me. ALWAYS be honest. Just saying "Sorry, I'm not interested" as harsh as it may sound, is already a thousand times better than just ignoring all of a sudden. The person will be confused and forever wondering what they did wrong. Submitted April 25, 2020 at 12:16AM It's horrible. I've been ghosted for this girl today and I'm feeling like shit. It's the first person I was interested in for a long time and now she just did this to me. ALWAYS be honest. Just saying "Sorry, I'm not interested" as harsh as it may sound, is already a thousand times better than just ignoring all of a sudden. The person will be confused and forever wondering what they did wrong.