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Poor girl missed out :(

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I feel like such an a**hole, but for us to continue, I need him to move out of his mom’s house. How do I approach this?

We’ve been dating for about a year and a half. He’s 37M, I’m 33F. He has been living with his mother since his dad passed away unexpectedly about 5 years ago. I was told this wasn’t supposed to be a long term thing as he intended on staying with her temporarily to help with finances and “man things” as they were healing. I wasn’t around in the beginning so can’t speak to it, but fast forward to today the place is a disaster, it’s insanely cluttered and she can’t afford the mortgage or utilities on her own, nor can she maintain and take care of it without him. Also they are essentially enmeshed. She is constantly, texting, calling, giving him “honey-do” orders, cooking for him, doing his laundry and is always always there. She has massaged his shoulders when I wasn’t doing it fast enough or hard enough, asked him to remember her login info and calls him daily to ask for it. When he’s at my house, she calls or texts to see what he’s doing and when he’ll be home because she’s cooking fo...

How do I bring up my kinks to a guy?

I'm in my late teens and a virgin, but I wanna have sex really bad but I'm waiting for the right person, point is I've had a LOT of time to explore and know some of the things I like, dominance and submission. I'm definitely a sub. For example, I want a guy to bully me maybe not in the traditional way maybe like tease me is a better way to say it. Something like calling me a crybaby I want them to make me feel little and helpless overall. I guess I like feeling like a damsel in distress to a man that I trust. this probably sounds so weird. BUT I also want them to cuddle me when I'm crying or whining even if its something stupid or for no reason. Tell me that I'm being such a good girl for them. Punish me when I'm being bratty even when it's not sexual I wanna feel dominated by them in everyday life etc, etc I think I have an authority kink? I've never been close enough to someone to tell them these things the only relationship I had was only for a w...

Male 27 with low labido but masturbating daily??

I masturbate every day but I've never had the urge to have sex with women and I know somethings not right. I have had sex with women when they've initiated and I enjoyed every minute but I can't understand why I don't try harder. It's killing me, I know I'll enjoy it and I really do want to have a fuck buddy or girlfriend asap Submitted April 20, 2020 at 09:41PM I masturbate every day but I've never had the urge to have sex with women and I know somethings not right. I have had sex with women when they've initiated and I enjoyed every minute but I can't understand why I don't try harder. It's killing me, I know I'll enjoy it and I really do want to have a fuck buddy or girlfriend asap

Not the best sex of his life - but I want to be!

Posted in r/relationship_advice , but I think a more sex positive community would provide better insight for me.... Just like the title says. I’ve (24F) been seeing a guy for a little while now (24M). We’ve been hooking up for a long time but recently got a little more serious. We were joking around and drinking the other day with our mutual friends and we were talking about the best sex of our lives. The guy I’m seeing mentioned that we have great sex, but I wasn’t his number 1. In fairness, he’s not mine either, but for some reason it bothered me SO MUCH. I know it’s childish to be upset about something like this, and that’s why I’m asking Reddit. I’m very sexually experienced and have had a lot of people tell me, unprompted, that I’m far and away the best lay they’ve ever had. I KNOW that it doesn’t matter at the end of the day, and we still have good sex, and we have a great relationship in every way.... but this feeling of needed to be “the best” is eating away at me and I feel...

Straight young woman sexually attracted to gay men. What does it all mean?

I find that I love hairy, beard type men or metrosexual types. I cannot help it, maybe it’s because they seem to put a lot more work into their aesthetic. Examples https://instagram.com/yesutoro?igshid=flo5wem1tp7l https://instagram.com/franco_semplice?igshid=q6v0ki5bnmqa https://instagram.com/danedebruin?igshid=iaoibjh0byra They’re all so yummy looking to me, I wish I could find more straight men that were absolute beef cakes like the ones above. Hell, I sometimes wish I was a gay man so I could actually have a chance. I know I’m not totally alone in this, but could there be some deeper meaning behind my feelings? Submitted April 20, 2020 at 09:50PM I find that I love hairy, beard type men or metrosexual types. I cannot help it, maybe it’s because they seem to put a lot more work into their aesthetic.Exampleshttps://instagram.com/yesutoro?igshid=flo5wem1tp7lhttps://instagram.com/franco_semplice?igshid=q6v0ki5bnmqahttps://instagram.com/danedebruin?igshid=iaoibjh0byraThey’r...

Day After Pain

My boyfriend (20M) and I (almost 19F) have been together for almost 3 years and we’ve been having sex since I was 16. We’ve been living together since I was 17, we have a pretty healthy sex life and have sex maybe twice a week if not more. Sex is nothing crazy, very “vanilla”, but last night we had sex longer than usual that was a bit harder. I’ve had pain before after sex but I haven’t been this sore the day after (plus usually I’m sore in my genitals if I ever am after harder sex). My ribs are sore when I move or laugh and it’s even worse in my lower abdomen, it’s starting to be pretty annoying. It’s like I can feel the entirety of my uterus/cervix just ACHING. Should I be worried or is this just something that happens? Sex last night wasn’t crazy, maybe a little more passionate and attentive than usual lately but that’s all Submitted April 20, 2020 at 10:51PM My boyfriend (20M) and I (almost 19F) have been together for almost 3 years and we’ve been having sex since I was 16. ...