We’ve been dating for almost 6 months. My boyfriend has a difficult time getting and maintaining an erection. Because of this he seems embarrassed or something and stopped being intimate with me completely. He won’t even kiss me anymore. Before I knew that he was avoiding intimate encounters with me because of his ED (he finally mentioned it) I thought he had just lost interest because he’s also a little withdrawn. I had also wondered if he was sleeping with someone else and was just too sexed up to be interested in me. This has been a miserable roller coaster. He doesn’t seem to care at all about not having sex with me and isn’t making an effort to see a doctor or anything. This is my life too and I’m not happy that my intimate life is now nonexistent. Not like I’m going to cheat or anything but I’m definitely craving intimacy or at least to be touched for f*** sake! How do I talk to him about this? I almost want to dump him because I’m so angry!!! But I also want to be understandi...

Just joined the community, figured I would give this a shot and maybe get some feedback. A week or so ago I was using my wife's laptop doing some work, mine is running like crap so no big deal. I am in work mode and decide to turn on some music! So I go to the desktop and find the Spotify shortcut and a folder labeled "folder". Curious me, I looked inside and found two clips of my wife having sex with her ex boyfriend. These are older clips (we have been married about three years, dated for two), as she is clearly younger in this clips. So naturally I am thinking, these are old and she never opens this folder, so I look at the recently opened files and find that this particular folder and these particular clips have been viewed on a semi regular basis for at least the past six months. Oddly enough it turned me the fuck on, although I am still not sure why! Curious what others think of why she may look at them? We have a great sex life, I don't really see the con...

Hi all- interesting times we’re all in... I’m curious if any other couples out there are in a similar predicament I’d never thought my girlfriend (27) and I (M 26) would be in. We’re both cooped up now like most of the world and I generally have a modest amount of work to do while she unfortunately was just laid off being in one of the people-gathering type industries, so now she is left without much to do except come up with personal endeavors - of which I’ve also done for myself to fill the time between work obligations. The problem is, I’m quite a content introverted extrovert who has no problem with more alone time in these times and also heavily in the medical/science field so I’ve at this point just done way too much research into this situation to where I feel the most comfortable really self-quarantining and laying low to avoid infection at all costs. I really don’t think we should be leaving the house unless absolutely necessary or doing activities far from others (walking i...

I’ve been in a couple of relationships with women who wanted to be dominated. Mostly, it was easy to just wing it and take them without having to actually know what I was doing, but with my current SO, I wanted to learn more about what I’m doing and see if I can improve. Unfortunately, googling it just brings up your average bull from people that have less experience than I do. Does anyone know any good sights to learn and improve on my Dom skills? Submitted March 20, 2020 at 11:39PM I’ve been in a couple of relationships with women who wanted to be dominated. Mostly, it was easy to just wing it and take them without having to actually know what I was doing, but with my current SO, I wanted to learn more about what I’m doing and see if I can improve. Unfortunately, googling it just brings up your average bull from people that have less experience than I do. Does anyone know any good sights to learn and improve on my Dom skills?

I got uncomfortably close to cheating on my boyfriend and I feel disgusted in myself. This guy messaged me via Reddit and at first we were just talking about casual stuff, how both our relationships are and stuff. Then he started complimenting me and it felt nice but I had a weird feeling.... but I kept talking to him We got on the topic of our sex lives with our SO’s and he said to me something along the lines of “let me know if you need a hand” and talked about how he had pics and if I wanted to see them. I hesitated to say no. I was tempted?! Why? You can literally find porn anywhere and I was gonna start sending nudes to this guy so I eventually told him off but I feel horrible now. TL;DR I hesitated to say no to a guy who wanted to sext me, I feel uncomfortable with myself now. Submitted March 21, 2020 at 12:26AM I got uncomfortably close to cheating on my boyfriend and I feel disgusted in myself.This guy messaged me via Reddit and at first we were just talking about ca...

Can someone help? I would love someone to explain smegma to me, I just wanna know reasons why you would have it, how to prevent it and how to get rid of it, Any help appreciated Submitted March 20, 2020 at 11:39PM Can someone help?I would love someone to explain smegma to me, I just wanna know reasons why you would have it, how to prevent it and how to get rid of it, Any help appreciated

So, I have developed this kind of weird kink - I like chubby women. When I'm masturbating and watching porn it's almost always porn with chubby girls. I've been aroused by this for roughly a year now. There is just one problem: my gf is very very thin and not willing to gain weight. She doesn't know about my kink but I've tried to jokingly tell her to gain some weight but she made it clear that she doesn't want to, which is perfectly fine for me. I love her just the way she is, even though I like the thought of her putting on a few pounds. Sex is no problem, I'm still able to sleep with her and I still get very aroused when I see her naked body. It's just that sometimes I have troubles cumming without imagining chubbier girls while having sex and I'm ashamed of it. I know that I can get rid of fetishes - when I was 14/15 I was very attracted to feet but now, few years later, I don't really care about them anymore. So, is there an easy way of get...