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/u/circuspunk- on Finally got an ace ring!

Any ring that you like that is black (or predominantly black) qualifies as an ace ring! It should fit your personal style. There are no wrong answers! The classic is an entirely black band worn on your middle finger. I have a thin steel ring that is dark grey and I wear it on my thumb. That’s my ace ring lol. I bought mine on Etsy! November 16, 2019 at 11:59PM

Is it acceptable to ask a girl out at her work?

I'm 18M and I work in IT for my local council, and I met this girl who I found really attractive when I was in another building upgrading their monitors. I had to go back again the next day and I spoke to her again for about 10 minutes and I felt like I got some good vibes from her, like she might have found me attractive as well. However I have slight Asperger's and in the past I've misread situations like this so I'm anxious about whether I was reading it right or not, but I have become a lot less socially oblivious since then. Where I live there's not many places you can meet girls and she is one of the most attractive people I've seen for a while that I feel like I could have a chance with. Basically I'll be heading to her office for one last time on Monday and I was thinking about asking her if she wanted to go to lunch some time so I could get to know her better. I thought lunch would be best because it's just for a short time but we would get to...

Confused can u help

So I’m (14m) I know this girl I texted her in December of last year and the way i got to know her was through replying to her insta storie and she responded ig and ever since then we have texted everyday and in june we were kinda flirting and she was like ily ik u love me just say it and right there and then I said it i was like I really love you and I said ik your joking tho cuz she makes these kind of jokes and she said ur right and she was like so you love me and j told her yes very much and she told me we are young we don’t know what love is and i told her your right and she told me I’m not refusing you I’m just saying if u rlly mean it than in the future when we grow older we might date and if that happens i want u to pull me close and kiss me for all that time i let you wait Now the problem is I’m afraid she might meet someone else in the time we still friends I’m rlly worried idk she has never loved anyone she says and it’s hard for her to love someone and She says it puts pre...

Does she[F16] like me?[M16]

I'm (23M) going to a bar alone tonight!

Any tips/advice? Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:37PM Any tips/advice?

I’m being ghosted, help

For the past month or so I (16M) have been talking to this girl (17F). We talked a lot and were having good conversations. I didn’t really make a move until recently because A) I wanna nervous and doubted myself and B) I don’t have much experience and didn’t know what to say. Anyway, this week was her birthday and she was going out for dinner. She sent me a picture of what she was wearing and I said she looked nice. She responded with a thanks, but ever since then she hasn’t talked as much and she’s ghosted me for the last 24 hrs (even posting things on her story but not talking to me). What does mean and what can I do to fix it? Submitted November 16, 2019 at 11:38PM For the past month or so I (16M) have been talking to this girl (17F). We talked a lot and were having good conversations. I didn’t really make a move until recently because A) I wanna nervous and doubted myself and B) I don’t have much experience and didn’t know what to say. Anyway, this week was her birthday and ...

It’s been a month and I still think about him. What do I do?

I was seeing this guy for 6 months kind of on and off before he broke it off. We were really good friends in the time we weren’t dating as well and I miss him a lot. We don’t speak anymore because he ended things really badly and hurt me a lot. I’ve been speaking to other boys etc and been offered dates but none I want to go on because I still think about him. I still feel like crap all the time and think of him everyday. Is there a point in reaching out? I know he’s probably not changed his mind about being together but in the back of my head I always think what if. And I really do want to be friends but don’t know if now is the time for that. I don’t know if this is just in my head because for nearly the whole time we knew each other we were meant to spend yesterday together to play the new Pokemon game (nerdy I know) and I can’t help thinking if it even crossed his mind. We had this plan for 6 months even in the time we decided to be friends before and it really upset me we were...