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Should I go for it?

So I went on a date with this girl and it went quite date, we’ve been chatting for a while and we agreed on meeting again, but whenever she was proposing something I was busy and vice very, however im going to her town tomorrow to see her for a few hours because she’s free. Most of people say to go for the kiss on the 2nd date, but I dont know how to approach it really Submitted November 05, 2019 at 11:53PM So I went on a date with this girl and it went quite date, we’ve been chatting for a while and we agreed on meeting again, but whenever she was proposing something I was busy and vice very, however im going to her town tomorrow to see her for a few hours because she’s free. Most of people say to go for the kiss on the 2nd date, but I dont know how to approach it really

I wanna ask her out but im afraid that it will ruin our friendship

Ok so theres this girl in my college CCA. Since we are playing a duet together I get to interact with her for around 5 months. In this 5 months is probably the best time in my college life. I practise with her almost everyday, she is super bubbly, friendly and very cute. Sometimes she gets abit teasy and would laugh and my stupid jokes and punch my arms laughing. I absolutely love every moment I spent with her. But now that the concert is over, I dont really have a reason to interact with her anymore. I just wanted to know her more. But after looking for signs I think she might not be interested in me and she is just friendly. I've told one of my close friend about it and he tell me not to risk it as it might ruin our friendship but part of me still wanted to go for it even though theres a chance I get rejected. What should I do? Edit: I am 18 and she is 17 Submitted November 05, 2019 at 11:55PM Ok so theres this girl in my college CCA. Since we are playing a duet together ...

I don’t see myself texting her idk why

I mean I really want to text her but I don’t find myself doing it often because it feels like a chore for me to do for some reason. honestly I think I’m scared on carrying the conversation and keep it interesting or overthinking about it. Is there a tip for me to overcome the fear of texting her? Since multiple friends of mine told me that I was “dry” at texting and I act like a robot. Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:00AM I mean I really want to text her but I don’t find myself doing it often because it feels like a chore for me to do for some reason. honestly I think I’m scared on carrying the conversation and keep it interesting or overthinking about it. Is there a tip for me to overcome the fear of texting her? Since multiple friends of mine told me that I was “dry” at texting and I act like a robot.

Can relationships from dating apps be genuine?

I’ve dated a person from a dating app, but I feel as though that the attraction isn’t genuine, because it starts from both people looking for a relationship, not the “I met this person they’re rly fun” type and it develops into friendship then transitions into a relationship. For dating apps, it’s more like I want to date and he/she matched with me so I’m gonna see how it works, y’all know what I mean? Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:03AM I’ve dated a person from a dating app, but I feel as though that the attraction isn’t genuine, because it starts from both people looking for a relationship, not the “I met this person they’re rly fun” type and it develops into friendship then transitions into a relationship. For dating apps, it’s more like I want to date and he/she matched with me so I’m gonna see how it works, y’all know what I mean?

I feel like at this point in my life I won't find the one.

Sometimes I get sad thinking about my future. I'm a 29F over a year ago I got out of a 7 year relationship and I'm very happy I'm still not in it. However all I want to do in life is find my soulmate and get married and just make memories together and have fun. I just think that I won't find that person. I've done online dating and it's just horrendous. The guys are terrible and can't keep a conversation and they want is sex. I'm looking for something deeper. It's really depressing being almost 30 and alone. I love my alone time but I miss having that special someone in my life. Rant over. Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:08AM Sometimes I get sad thinking about my future. I'm a 29F over a year ago I got out of a 7 year relationship and I'm very happy I'm still not in it. However all I want to do in life is find my soulmate and get married and just make memories together and have fun. I just think that I won't find that person....

He lied about his height. Is it a red/yellow flag?

I'm sorry if this is the wrong sub. I matched with a guy on Tinder and after messaging each other there for a few times we moved on Instagram. We talked almost incessantly for two days during which he "confesses" to being kind of short for a guy (5'4'') and of having being ghosted after revealing this fact by some girls on Tinder. I tell he's taller than me and that I wouldn't really care either way and we move on. Tonight he tells me he lied about something and it turns out he's actually way taller. Is this a red flags (or at least yellow)? I don't like being put to the test like this but I also kind of see why a guy meeting girls on Tinder would do that... Submitted November 06, 2019 at 12:11AM I'm sorry if this is the wrong sub.I matched with a guy on Tinder and after messaging each other there for a few times we moved on Instagram. We talked almost incessantly for two days during which he "confesses" to being kind of ...

Always taking punishment

I (F) ... I hate airing my dirty laundry but here goes. I've done some shoddy things in the past to people- In particular I Lied about interest in someone else while with a boyfriend and once with someone I was going* to be in a relationship with. It was with the same person.. I later married that person I tried to conceal. Twice, I was discovered and the people I once knew and loved both turned against me. I took the brunt of the fury. I am a proud person but I let myself be publically humiliated, basically laid over and showed my belly to the angry person/s and took all their wrath, miserably and for some time, for months or for years through deprecation, assault, accusation, whatever. I knew it was just a momentary reaction to a feeling. I felt I deserved it. I know I have not been consistent with love or I have made consistently selfish decisions which I finally sealed by marrying the person I screwed over person time and time again for. This person then made my life a living...