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/u/anonymousposter357 on Newly discovered Asexual

I don't have any personal experience that could help you (I think I'm probably aromantic), but here's this: https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/wiki/relationships October 21, 2019 at 12:11AM

/u/QuantumCthulhu on Do people typically like being sexually aroused?

Yeah, I still get sexual urges, but I do feel them to be a burden most all of the time, like I think it would be nice to just not have them October 21, 2019 at 12:10AM

Social advice

So there is a group of boys and girls in my college and iam trying to getclose to a specific girl in it ..all my attempts failed lately any advices?? Submitted October 20, 2019 at 11:17PM So there is a group of boys and girls in my college and iam trying to getclose to a specific girl in it ..all my attempts failed lately any advices??

How can I stop being in my head all the time ?

Throwaway because this embarrassing and I'm really bad and shy about this stuff. I (22M) have been talking to this girl (22F) for like 2 and a half months. I live in the US of A and she in England. We've known each other for a few years but I kinda just decided to try it and see what happens, making my intentions clear, and I think she knows that. Living in different time zones 6 hours apart makes it kinda hard to talk often, given work and sleep, but overall I think its been going good. We talk basically daily, and usually on our days off try to make time to talk to each other, sometimes brief. And I don't think anything bad is happening as far as I'm aware. But, I'm really really bad at this stuff, and I'll say I'm not that confident. I'm a pretty mature, level-headed fellow, except for things like this. I know she's usually shyish and quiet, and will give 1 word answers a lot. But I also have trouble making conversation because I don't wa...

Should I give this guy a chance? He asked me out, but I'm not sure.

Hi. I want to know what's your take on this. I'm a female, 28 y/o. This guy invite me on a date this week: I met a guy through Facebook; from his pictures, he seemed cute. So we started chatting, and found out he have the same interests, hobbies and tastes. So that was pretty awesome, since in my country is really hard to find someone with those specific things (I mean, my interests, hobbies, etc)., so I thought that was reall great. After some time, he asked for my number and I gave it to him, and he started to text me everyday (in a good way, not in an annoying way, lol) and I texted him too. We talked about everything, so eventually the conversation turned about sex, and it was good, however after that, everytime we talked he kept veering the conversation towards that theme and I found that dissapointing, and kinda annoying tbh. But I overlooked that because of all the other stuff. However the other day he told me that he would like if I give him a blow job, and I was lik...

Texting guy 8 years younger than me. Advice?

So for the last week I’ve been texting this guy 8 years younger than me, he’s 20 almost 21 and I’m 28, he started talking to me first. But he’s real cute and nice and I’m sick of being in toxic relationships. Anyways I’ve never talked to anyone this young and he seemed to be real interested. He kept messaging me everyday and he would say I was cute and yada yada. We were going to hang out Friday and I told him I got off work around 9:30 10:00 pm, then he said that was too late and that he was tired and what is there to do that late? And that he still wanted to hang another day. Then we message the next day and he wanted to watch the yankee game at his house last night and I said ok. He lives about 20 min away from me and I said I had to get a snack and I’d be over around 35-40 min. This was around 8:30 pm last night. Then he says that he didn’t know I’d be that late and getting food and that he was getting tired to be honest and he said he easily falls asleep when he watches tv at nig...

Before anyone starts dating, remember this sentence.

"When there is discipline, there is respect. When there is respect, there is understanding. When there is understanding, there is love." It'll be your move on comprehending this one, we all have different opinions after all. Anyway, what's your own advice before dating someone? Submitted October 20, 2019 at 11:41PM "When there is discipline, there is respect. When there is respect, there is understanding. When there is understanding, there is love."It'll be your move on comprehending this one, we all have different opinions after all. Anyway, what's your own advice before dating someone?