hey guys, so ive been seeing this new girl and things have been really good like really good ... this weekend we had the whole weekend to each other so we got a little carried away and had a bunch of sex ... it was honestly great! going from my previous relationship (which ended 2 years ago) to now it was so good ... the only problem is after the 8th time in 3 days we went at it and i had a hard time getting an erection ... no problem i chalked it up to being tired etc .. well today i came home from work and thought maybe id jerk off to see and i had a hard time getting an erection and once i got it, it would die out quickly or it woulnt be 100% hard .. im fairly young 26 years old so i dont think i should be having those problem i work out 5 times a week for roughly 1-1.5 hours I have had anxiety in the past and its kind of bothering me, like I wont be able to perform or please her. I also feel like her sex drive is much higher then mine which im not complaining for but now im reall...

Don’t know if we would ever go the whole way, has anyone done everything but with others? Submitted October 16, 2019 at 12:05AM Don’t know if we would ever go the whole way, has anyone done everything but with others?

I guess I have pretty much two main questions To start off I pretty much went until now with zero sexual experience. I have never felt the need to masturbate, and watching porn would get me aroused but I still can never get close to ejaculating as far as I can tell... I have had wet dreams before however. Normal things that get guys aroused by will do the same to me, but I've never had the desire to jerk it. When I do try to jerk it while watching porn it just kind of annoys me because I don't feel anything changing/happening and eventually I lose it. I'm sure theres a psychological block aspect there. I have no childhood trauma or glaring obvious reasons to be sexually repressed, although admittedly terrible sex education (christian absistence based education for the most part, although they were not very pushy or overtly anti-sex they were certainly very unhelpful). I am not quite sure what to call this problem. Since I have started dating my GF I wanted to get to the r...

So 20F, discovering self love for the first time. Y’all must be getting sick of me on here but I promise, this is my last question! I’ve started using a vibrator and experiencing mind numbing orgasms. I’ve never had an orgasm before the vibrator and was wondering - do all orgasms feel like that? A bit of context to it: I use the toy on my clit. I start at the lowest speed and slowly work my way up. At one point. I feel tingly in my legs and my butt, tense up and shake a little. Then there’s this plateau where the sensation still feels good but not like, at a peak. I stop for a few seconds and then start again because I still haven’t gotten that feeling of relief. I repeat this twice or maybe thrice, depending on the day, and if I keep going at it persistently, the sensitive but needy feeling kind of morphs into a numbness. It starts in my legs and makes its way into my upper body. I tense up so much that even my teeth are clenched and my eyes are screwed shut. My mind goes blank an...

Judgement free zone. I've heard so many I love hearing about all of it. And fantasies that they could never do with their significant other. Thank you!! Submitted October 16, 2019 at 12:12AM Judgement free zone. I've heard so many I love hearing about all of it. And fantasies that they could never do with their significant other. Thank you!!

The girl I'm seeing is on the pill but has only started on it again after a break from it. Doctor told her that it becomes effective after 7 days of use. So we had sex today and then remembered the 7 day thing, so stopped and used a condom going forwards. I was nowhere near when we stopped. So, surely the day 1 pill she took today had some effect? What is the percentage effectiveness of the pill before the 7 day mark i.em how wffwctive is it on day 1 - does the percentage ramp up with each passing say until it's fully effective? I know they're not fully effective till day 7 (now) but how effective are they actually on day 1, after just one pill is taken? Just wondering how much we should worry and if we should bother with the morning after pill or not. Having a baby is obviously a unanimous no. Submitted October 16, 2019 at 12:14AM The girl I'm seeing is on the pill but has only started on it again after a break from it. Doctor told her that it becomes effec...

My black girlfriend wants to incorporate elements of race play into our sexual lives. I am somewhat upset given that she is the love of my life and her race has always been irrelevant to me. Submitted October 16, 2019 at 12:14AM My black girlfriend wants to incorporate elements of race play into our sexual lives. I am somewhat upset given that she is the love of my life and her race has always been irrelevant to me.