So my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 months now (all together we've been together for around 2 years, we are always on and off) and she's been telling me she hates her parents and they make her feel depressed and now I think she's scared of love because of her parents so she pushes anyone away tht loves her. I could use some help on what I should do. Thanks. Submitted October 01, 2019 at 11:28PM So my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 months now (all together we've been together for around 2 years, we are always on and off) and she's been telling me she hates her parents and they make her feel depressed and now I think she's scared of love because of her parents so she pushes anyone away tht loves her. I could use some help on what I should do. Thanks.

Should I show my face to prove? It really sucks out there people. Even when I overlook how someone looks and base interest solely on their description it's like even those people shoot me down. My wording isn't off or anything. I don't just write "Hi" or come off as desperate as if I'm doing everything I can to please the other person. I really don't. I wouldn't say I'm boring either so wtf is going on? Is my face, height, and body really having that much of a negative impact on any chance of a love life? Am I going to die alone (22M, 5'8", ≈190 lb)?? It's like once I got interested in the opposite gender and once I started to notice how good everyone else was doing it's like my self-esteem has been shot to shit ever since. This is also kinda why I find the "love yourself first"-stuff to be bullshit. Literally every insecurity of mine is based on ny lack of human touch and loneliness, I'm fine otherwise I think. ...

My bf (22) and I (21f) have been together for 7 months. I don’t know if I can see myself ever marrying him. Part of me doesn’t want to be in the relationship anymore. I’ve been feeling this way for 2 weeks. Maybe I need more time to myself? He’s a great guy, truly good but part of me doesn’t feel safe with him because one time he was struggling mentally and financially and he suffers from trauma from his abusive childhood. his mom and I tried to give him money and I tried to put it in his pocket and he threatened to punch me. I’m really not sure how compatible we are... I’m so confused! Has anyone else felt this way!? Submitted October 01, 2019 at 11:36PM My bf (22) and I (21f) have been together for 7 months. I don’t know if I can see myself ever marrying him. Part of me doesn’t want to be in the relationship anymore. I’ve been feeling this way for 2 weeks. Maybe I need more time to myself? He’s a great guy, truly good but part of me doesn’t feel safe with him because one time ...

General question, if answered elsewhere please guide me. A lot of the advice on here is very much based around the idea of getting improved communication, but how? I know most of my relationships have had poor communication, and any issues that come up are either brushed aside or under the rug. Or even worse sometimes unilaterally considered non-issues but one partner. So how does one go about fixing this. This can vary widely person to person but as a general rule what should one be trying, doing, and not doing. Thanks! Submitted October 01, 2019 at 11:37PM General question, if answered elsewhere please guide me.A lot of the advice on here is very much based around the idea of getting improved communication, but how?I know most of my relationships have had poor communication, and any issues that come up are either brushed aside or under the rug. Or even worse sometimes unilaterally considered non-issues but one partner. So how does one go about fixing this.This can vary wid...

I’ll make this as short as I can. Last fall me and this girl I’ve known since we were 13-14 ish started hanging out more as we both moved away to the same city for school and work after high school. Keep in mind she had moved away for a while already so we sort of lost touch with each other for a couple years. I ended up winning some tickets to an NHL hockey game from a school contest, and I asked her to come with me seeing as we were in the same city now. It was a lot of fun so we started hanging out more on the weekends. We did things like finding new breakfast joints in the city and going out to edm shows or ‘raves’ where we danced together quite a bit. Over the span of a few months in the back of my mind I had kinda started to catch feelings but ignored them. One day I was hanging out with her and a couple of her other friends made assumptions and asked us if we had been dating for a while, and I joking said to her “I don’t know are we?” to which she replied “hey let’s just hav...

Okay so this guy has a house he has two roommates they have three cats I don't think any of them clean. I was curious as to if anyone else has this problem? Submitted October 01, 2019 at 11:43PM Okay so this guy has a house he has two roommates they have three cats I don't think any of them clean. I was curious as to if anyone else has this problem?

I probably sound stupid but I’ve literally never done this before, do i offer to pay for her or is it that being too forward? Submitted October 01, 2019 at 11:48PM I probably sound stupid but I’ve literally never done this before, do i offer to pay for her or is it that being too forward?