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Serious question: What do guys feel about ball sucking and rimming?

I genuinely curious. So I love sucking on balls, playing w them, and rimming, but hubs isn’t into it. We do have an open marriage, so I get some of that from others, but want to know other guys opinions. Submitted September 19, 2019 at 11:47PM I genuinely curious. So I love sucking on balls, playing w them, and rimming, but hubs isn’t into it. We do have an open marriage, so I get some of that from others, but want to know other guys opinions.

Why do women love male condoms but whine about female ones?

TSIA really, not meant to circle jerk. I've just noticed that (while in a committed relationship) women have extremely negative attitudes towards female condoms and complain about how "horrible" they are. So much that they're never really used. But women adore male condoms though. I don't understand why? Please don't say it's because "women are expected to take birth control" while I understand that no-one is forcing you. That sounds like a discussion 'ender' rather than the real answer. The vagina isn't very sensitive at all compared to the penis. It's main purpose is as a birth canal so it shouldn't be by design. So it makes sense to put the barrier there rather than on the more sensitive organ (penis) and societies have done that throughout history. However women love male condoms. Pretty much all women would prefer it if their partner used condoms all the time so they didn't have to use bc (pretty much all women ...

[M18] Unsatisfied with sex, jealous

Hey all, so I've had this problem for a while now. I am unsatisfied with my orgasm. I was unsatisfied before I had sex for the first time, and I am still unsatisfied now that I'm having regular sex. I tried fixing this problem a while ago by doing anal play, and maybe it made orgasms feel a little more intense.. sometimes. It's difficult to do by myself and hard to stay aroused/be into it with my girlfriend. We used to do anal play almost every time before having sex, but now we dont bother because it seems pointless. Recently, I saw something about flexing pelvic muscles to get multiple orgasms and I've been practicing every day for a month to no avail. If I squeeze really hard I can get a pretty good orgasm, but it's nothing special. As a result, or maybe on top of this, I am jealous of my girlfriend/women in general for their orgasm. Idk, I enjoy pleasuring my partner, but at the same time I feel like I'm being jipped. Sex for me is essentially fucking and t...

Position tips for G-Spot stimulation from a bigger guy

Ok, so I have only had 1 previous partner in a long term relationship. Current FB is big for me. Definitely above average and it is more than I'm used to. It's amazing sex but sometimes painful. Noticed that my previous go-to positions for G-spot stimulation don't work the same. Previously reverse cowgirl or pronebone hit the spot perfectly. Think he may be too long to hit that spot since it's not far in. Tried pronebone and it was the first time I had my cervix hit. Any tips on positions for getting G-spot stimulation from a larger guy? Submitted September 20, 2019 at 12:00AM Ok, so I have only had 1 previous partner in a long term relationship. Current FB is big for me. Definitely above average and it is more than I'm used to. It's amazing sex but sometimes painful. Noticed that my previous go-to positions for G-spot stimulation don't work the same.Previously reverse cowgirl or pronebone hit the spot perfectly. Think he may be too long to hit that...

Turns out I’m an unwitting victim on a long list of girls...

Using a throwaway for the usual reasons. Sorry that this is a bit on the longer side. Earlier this week it came out in my social circle that someone I thought was a really good friend of mine is actually trash. A lying, mentally and emotionally abusive narcissist who has cheated on and damaged more girls than I even know. It’s a long story that if I gave too many details would probably make me at least identifiable as a name on a long list of girls and would out him by name. The short of it is, he gave a LOT of girls chlamydia on top of cheating, lying, and emotionally manipulating them. It’s possible that I have chlamydia and I do have an appointment next Tuesday to get checked out and get the issue taken care of. The main problem I’m having right now is just mentally dealing with the possibility of infection being reality. I know it’s treatable and ultimately not the biggest problem I’ve had to deal with, but it would be the first STD I’ve gotten. I guess my biggest thing right...

Does vaginal penetration rub off the top layer of cells in the vaginal mucosa?

I ask because this is a quote from Jen Gunter’s The Vagina Bible: “No matter how gentle you are with a finger, toy, tongue, or penis, friction will rub off the top layer of cells.” What do people mean by friction when they refer to vaginal intercourse? She goes on to say,”If heterosexual sex led to prolonged internal injury, that would dramatically affect our ability to procreate.” Is she implying that intercourse leads to transient internal injury? Does it lead to transient internal injury? Submitted September 20, 2019 at 12:15AM I ask because this is a quote from Jen Gunter’s The Vagina Bible: “No matter how gentle you are with a finger, toy, tongue, or penis, friction will rub off the top layer of cells.”What do people mean by friction when they refer to vaginal intercourse?She goes on to say,”If heterosexual sex led to prolonged internal injury, that would dramatically affect our ability to procreate.”Is she implying that intercourse leads to transient internal injury? Do...

Ache in hips / thighs after 2nd orgasm (m)

If I have a second ejaculation relatively soon after my first one (within say an hour, not ages later), I nearly always get this very uncomfortable feeling in and around my hips, inside thighs, top of my legs etc. It's like an ache that's not painful but makes me need to move my legs. The ache can precede the 2nd orgasm. If I have more than 2 orgasms the ache reoccurs. Any idea what this means? It's quite annoying. Submitted September 20, 2019 at 12:16AM If I have a second ejaculation relatively soon after my first one (within say an hour, not ages later), I nearly always get this very uncomfortable feeling in and around my hips, inside thighs, top of my legs etc. It's like an ache that's not painful but makes me need to move my legs. The ache can precede the 2nd orgasm. If I have more than 2 orgasms the ache reoccurs. Any idea what this means? It's quite annoying.