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Men. Give me your HONEST opinion on labia.

Yeh so the usual I have a large labia minora, although its large i do still find it pretty in it's own way! I mean I've had a discussion with my friends and aside from one they all have a perfect porn star pussy!! Barely.visible inner lips. Although it's only been.mentioned.nastily to.me.once or twice by my ex, I've never had anyone say anything about it but the thing is when I'm having g sex I go to all lengths so they wont look directly at my vagina So men, in all honestly PLEASE! Do you prefer larger, smaller or no preference? What are your experiences with girls with larger labia?? I see a lot of memes about "two types of.girls" and although its based on a FALSE notion that women with larger labia minors have had more sex I cant help feeling a lot of boys will be disgusted by it?? Submitted September 11, 2019 at 11:32PM Yeh so the usual I have a large labia minora, although its large i do still find it pretty in it's own way! I mean I'v...

When I'm going down on my girl and she cums, she clenches her legs together to get me to stop. Is this the moment I should definitely stop, or would it make it better if I kept going?

I know that it differs depending on the person, but I can't help but wonder if I'm depriving her of something she may not even know about by stopping when she clenches her legs together. I know it gets sensitive down there when she cums. I'm just curious because I frequently see people saying things like "don't stop till her soul leaves her body" etc. What would happen if I kept going? Would it become unbearable the same way it does for men? Would it lead to another orgasm? What would happen? I normally jump straight into PIV when she cums, and sometimes I'll go back down for seconds mid-PIV and all is good. So I know there is an apparent "cool down period" where she's good to go again. But I'm curious about what may happen if I just kept going when she tries to clench her legs. Submitted September 11, 2019 at 11:37PM I know that it differs depending on the person, but I can't help but wonder if I'm depriving her of someth...

I take too long to ejaculate?

Soo, I am a virgin basically and I just started using a fleshlight. I know real sex is still far different but I have a concern since using the fleshlight takes me over 30 minutes to reach my climax. I was also watching porn too. I don't think this is normal at all. I'm able to stay hard the whole time, and towards the end the base of my penis hurts. Like I said I am a virgin so I'm a little worried this might be bad when it comes to the real thing. I masturbate once a day and normally I just use something very very soft like a fleece sweater or something. It feels soo much better than the flesh light, maybe masterbating this way has cause nerve damage or something so something like a fleshlight (or sex) might not be enough to satisfy me? Even when I cum using the fleshlight I have to mentally try really hard to ejaculate, and when i do it's not that satisfying. :(Once went to Vegas and got a hand job, but it was over 30 minutes ( I expected this would happen) so th...

Tips for long but thin?

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Bit of a bedroom problem, need help communicating

So I [30m] am having a bit of a bedroom problem with my [28f] girlfriend. She is a very smart, beautiful individual, but very awkward and quiet. We've been dating for about 9 months now and things are great outside of the bedroom. But inside, things feel fragile. It feels like there is a lack of connection on my part. For starters, she doesn't make much sound so I don't know if she is actually enjoying herself. I also like rougher stuff but have been doing less and less over time because I get no response and I don't know if she likes it, to the point where sex has become kind of vanilla and dry. We've talked about making sound and communicating during sex, and she actually made a comment the other night about how she misses when I would get rough with her [slapping, tossing, etc]. The problem is, it doesn't feel enjoyable to me. And this is something that I have always enjoyed. It doesn't feel right to do that with her. It's like there is no passion. ...

Healing Heartbreak

I (F24) experienced my first heartbreak in early July. We broke up after 8 months of dating. He (M25) was the first man I ever loved and the first man I didn’t didn’t break up with after just a few months. He had also become my best friend. I have gone through many stages of grief; shock, denial, anger, extreme sadness. It has now been over two months and I feel like I’m getting used to being single again. However I still cry almost daily—when I’m at work, driving, going to sleep, etc. At this point I feel like I will always love him & wonder how my life could have went if we had just chosen to stay together. I just want my feelings for him to die. TL/DR: Any ideas how long my sadness will last? Any suggestions on how to move on more quickly? (I’ve tried dating/hookups but I just compare everyone to him & I don’t want anyone else). Submitted September 11, 2019 at 10:59PM I (F24) experienced my first heartbreak in early July. We broke up after 8 months of dating. He (M25...

I [M21] have been in a relationship with my gf [F21] for over a year now and I been having thoughts of another girl

I’ve been with my gf for 1 year and 4 months now and we have had our ups and downs as does every relationship. I have had thoughts of other women before in our relationship but it was only in the first couple weeks or so. I have fallen in love with my gf and I care for her deeply. But I met this one girl in class and I can’t stop thinking of her. I am a senior in college now and I am taking an elective class and I saw this one girl a week ago and she has been on my mind ever since. I’ve seen her now three times and every time I find myself staring at her (Ik it’s creepy) and I can’t help myself. I feel so many feelings for her and I haven’t even talked to her yet. All we have done is glanced at each other sometimes and that’s it. I feel terrible I feel like I am cheating every time I think of her. I just don’t know what to do about this situation if I should do anything at all. My gf and I just went through a really bad fight that almost cause us to break up and maybe I just have fe...