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https://ift.tt/31ZCPKq Submitted August 22, 2019 at 11:46PM https://ift.tt/31ZCPKq

Should I (20F) text him or just give up?

So this guy (24M) comes into my work pretty frequently and we casually flirt but a few weeks ago he came in, asked for my number and if I wanted to hang out after work. I said yes and ended up staying over and felt like we had a pretty nice time together and he said he wanted to hang out again. So I texted him last week and asked if he wanted to do anything that weekend, he said he was out of town but he'd text me when he gets back anddddd I haven't heard anything since. Should I text him? I don't want to be annoying but it's been a hot sec Submitted August 22, 2019 at 08:06PM So this guy (24M) comes into my work pretty frequently and we casually flirt but a few weeks ago he came in, asked for my number and if I wanted to hang out after work. I said yes and ended up staying over and felt like we had a pretty nice time together and he said he wanted to hang out again. So I texted him last week and asked if he wanted to do anything that weekend, he said he was out...

Should I reach out?

Really would love some advice right now cause I don’t know what to do. Backstory: I (26M) met this women (23F) on Hinge (dating app) about four months ago. We started chatting everyday, all the time, and started to feel a connection to her, not to mention she is super cute to me. We talked for a week through this app and I finally asked if she wanted to go on a date, perhaps drinks or dinner? She responded with she had just gotten out of a long term relationship and was unsure, she’d rather just keep talking for now and see what happens. I’m like, sure. Don’t want to push it. Well, we kept talking and after I asked the second time for a date, was rejected with same reasons, I just stopped talking to her. I just returned to Grad School after working for three years and today while walking on campus early in the morning, I saw her walking down the sidewalk. We made eye contact and smiled at each other, she looked beautiful! I remembered her name so I looked her up on FB and saw she wa...

Is he worth the wait or am I wasting my time?

So I 24F met this guy 25F about 2 months ago, we immediately hit it off and exchanged numbers. In total we've been on like 6 dates and now we often just chill at either my place or his. We have a great time and I am starting to develop feelings for him, and in an attempt to save myself from getting hurt I decided to take the leap and asked him where he saw this going. He answered that he would like to keep it casual for now (mind you, we haven't had sex, but we do kiss/make-out etc.) that he wants to continue seeing me but without any expectations as to where this should go and then he said that if everything is going right that it will turn into more and that he is open to that idea, just not anytime soon as he mentioned he's under a lot of stress from his job and some family problems. And then he kinda mumbled to himself "I don't really know what I'm looking for." Which to me sounds like the whole, 'I'm not ready for a relationship (with you)...

when is it okay to ask someone out

so I'm (18M) and she is (18F) we have been texting for five days and like we have a LOT in common i wait for every text it feels like we are the same person. but what's killing me is when should i ask her out ? Submitted August 22, 2019 at 11:24PM so I'm (18M) and she is (18F) we have been texting for five days and like we have a LOT in common i wait for every text it feels like we are the same person. but what's killing me is when should i ask her out ?

A woman and I went out, but didn’t quite classify it as a date?

A woman and I went out, but didn’t quite classify it as a date? I just kind of said we have to grab some food sometime and she agreed. What am I doing wrong? Submitted August 22, 2019 at 11:27PM A woman and I went out, but didn’t quite classify it as a date? I just kind of said we have to grab some food sometime and she agreed. What am I doing wrong?

How do I break the cycle of not going far with girls I meet?

My love life recently has consisted of meeting someone, talking for a while, hanging out and having a big spark, kissing after dropping her off at her house, talking ecstatically for the next few days, and then slowly falling off. The girl I’m talking to now is following the same pattern. We talked for a week with a spark, the first time we hung out we kissed at the end and then hung out a couple of more times. Now it just feels like it’s slowing down, and I really don’t want this girl to follow the same pattern since she lives a block or two away and it’s been a ton of fun Submitted August 22, 2019 at 11:40PM My love life recently has consisted of meeting someone, talking for a while, hanging out and having a big spark, kissing after dropping her off at her house, talking ecstatically for the next few days, and then slowly falling off.The girl I’m talking to now is following the same pattern. We talked for a week with a spark, the first time we hung out we kissed at the end an...