I know, I know, its not the right place to make that kind of a connection. But I was up front and stated that I probably won't be buying the car due to the high mileage on it. Its just that we had a pretty cool conversation about lots of different things. She kept making strong eye contact with me and laughing. I felt some type of connection with her. I still don't know if I should pursue this or not if I end up not buying the car. If I do express an interest to her though, how should I do it? Open to any ideas, suggestions, or feedback Submitted August 17, 2019 at 12:14AM I know, I know, its not the right place to make that kind of a connection. But I was up front and stated that I probably won't be buying the car due to the high mileage on it.Its just that we had a pretty cool conversation about lots of different things. She kept making strong eye contact with me and laughing. I felt some type of connection with her.I still don't know if I should pursue this ...

So I've just had my heart broken for what feels like the 100th time. Only this time I had fallen hard for a guy who in reality turned out to be someone I thought he wasn't. He simply ghosted me with no real explanation, which in turn resulted in me now second guessing everything to ultimately come to the conclusion that nothing he told was the truth and I have been played and taken advantage of. I uprooted a lot of my life for this guy and am scrambling to fix and move past everything. But I can't seem to find any closure and deal with how someone can knowlingly hurt someone like this. How do you live with yourself knowing you have taken advantage of someone for your own personal gain and ego? I'm struggling a lot and suffer with mental health issues and can feel myself slipping. I'm desperate for some advice on ways to possibly find closure and overcome this feeling so that I can look forward to the future instead of retreating into myself. I simply don't w...

So I've fallen hard and fast for this guy I met a couple of months ago. I've been out of the dating scene for around a year now, and decided not to look for anything due to my track record of past relationships crashing and burning spectacularly. Anyway, I met this guy through a volunteering thing, and we immediately hit it off. We'd talk every day, and he'd make me laugh more than I've ever laughed before. I initially saw him as a good friend, but slowly those feelings developed into a full blown crush, which I'm pretty afraid of - let's just say I've been used a lot by various people. He asked me to dinner a few weeks ago, and I wasn't sure if it was meant to be a date or something friendly. Regardless, I had an amazing evening and he kindly picked up the bill, despite my protests. We hung out until pretty late, walking and chatting and went our separate ways home. About a week later, I visited him at his house and we watched a movie, put his arms...

Background:  I (22M) recently reconnected with an old friend (22F) from college who I always thought was attractive but never pulled a move because I was dating another girl back then. I never intentionally got to know her as a friend but over the past year, I realized we shared a few similarities: playing tennis, traveling, being a foodie, and other things. We follow each other on IG and we'd always like each other's posts and be the one of the first to watch each other's stories. We also went to the same church and had lots of mutual friends, so when I broke up with my GF back then, everyone knew. Current situation:  Fast forward a few months after graduation, she moves to another city for work and I stay in town for grad school so IG was the only way to stay in touch. I heard that she broke up with her BF after graduation and I didn't pull a move until recently (last week): I replied to her IG story with a funny, teasing joke. (For context, she posted a story abou...

I've been at this job for over a month and a half now and there's a guy there I think is really cute. Only one problem, I've only spoken to him twice and both those conversations have consisted of "hi". Pretty pathetic start, right? I have pretty bad social anxiety but I'd really like to talk to him and get to know him. He seems nice, but shy and I don't really know what to do. I know this isn't really "dating advice", but does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do? Submitted August 16, 2019 at 11:00PM I've been at this job for over a month and a half now and there's a guy there I think is really cute. Only one problem, I've only spoken to him twice and both those conversations have consisted of "hi". Pretty pathetic start, right?I have pretty bad social anxiety but I'd really like to talk to him and get to know him. He seems nice, but shy and I don't really know what to do.I know this isn...

I know online dating apps can help people but I feel like I'm too young for that and I wouldn't get much for it either. I'm currently not going to school till winter so I won't be meeting new people for awhile and I'm not old enough to go to bars to meet people. What are some ways I could meet new people that could potentially be dating material? Submitted August 16, 2019 at 11:14PM I know online dating apps can help people but I feel like I'm too young for that and I wouldn't get much for it either. I'm currently not going to school till winter so I won't be meeting new people for awhile and I'm not old enough to go to bars to meet people. What are some ways I could meet new people that could potentially be dating material?

Hi guys, i really don't know if this post belongs here but i just wanted to ask about a situation with a friend of mine. I'm in the uni, my friend(G) it's trying to date another close friend of mine called (V) she knows that he likes her but it seems, (G) is my friend but he's an asshole, he's asking me about info and strategies to date her. I think that he's just going to hurt her feelings if i don't tell (V) that he was a real asshole with other girls so he's probably doing the same thing with her. If i say that to her am i being a bad friend? Should i encourage (G) to date her or should i just stay quiet about it and let (V) figure it out by her own? Submitted August 16, 2019 at 11:15PM Hi guys, i really don't know if this post belongs here but i just wanted to ask about a situation with a friend of mine. I'm in the uni, my friend(G) it's trying to date another close friend of mine called (V) she knows that he likes her but it seems...