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Husband (30M) and I (34F) have known each other 7 yrs and married 6 yrs. We have 2.5 yr child who we planned and both adore. Problem is we have same reoccurring arguments that never actually get fixed. I have reached out for marriage counseling on four different occasions over the yrs, both pre/post baby, and all seemed like bandaids at most. The most recent session my husband opened up to the therapist (during his typical verbal and emotion abuse spout in front of her) and told her that a dr told him he was bipolar when he was younger (high school age maybe...didn’t ask specifics) and tried to medicate him with a trial set of pills. He said it seemed to help a little but messed with him more bc it was a short duration. His older brother mentioned to me in a serious but light way that he might be on the spectrum for asperger’s syndrome. When we dated yrs ago he was sweet, charming, even debonair which was a nice change from past guys I’ve dated. He won me over so we dated long distan...

You can be touch-averse without being aromantic. That's why we distinguish between romantic and sensual attraction. So I would say that can still be a crush. August 05, 2019 at 12:08AM

I don't really have that issue since I live in Japan. But, if I talk to the international community, the majority of the English speakers are white -> majority of English speaking aces are white as well. (´−｀) ﾝｰ August 04, 2019 at 11:59PM

Recently I went out with a girl I've known for a while just as a casual hangout. It wasn't anything official like a date, but I realized that I actually think she's super interesting. However, I've been getting relatively cold responses as I've been messaging her over the past week. The thing is, my friend recently started dating her best friend. However, I don't want it to come off as me using their new relationship (obviously girls talk). Is it weird for me to ask my friend to ask the girl he's dating what the girl I'm interested in thinks of me? Submitted August 04, 2019 at 11:26PM Recently I went out with a girl I've known for a while just as a casual hangout. It wasn't anything official like a date, but I realized that I actually think she's super interesting. However, I've been getting relatively cold responses as I've been messaging her over the past week. The thing is, my friend recently started dating her best friend. ...

There's been 2 things bugging me at the moment I suppose: the first is online dating. Whenever I seem to get close to a guy, they just suddenly ghost me. It seems to be a reoccurring pattern and I'm not sure why it keeps happening or if I seem to keep talking to guys who will only talk to me when they can be bothered to, instead of because they want to. But I keep getting hurt through this and whenever I get over someone doing this, I find someone new and they end up doing the same again. I don't understand what's wrong with me? I'm just sick of this happening over and over. The second is I guess real life dating. I've been in a few clubs in a few different cities and the first and only time I've had a guy who seemed interested in me was in a club when I was pretty drunk, and my friends wanted me to sober up so we could go... So i couldn't go over to that guy who was egging me on. And I massively regret it, I know it could have easily been nothing, bu...