Im not even sure how to put this into words... I can’t imagine my life without my husband. I love him unconditionally, when we’re good, we’re REALLY good.... But since the start of this year it has been really rocky. I don’t even know how it has gotten so bad, but sometimes I feel like I don’t even know him anymore. I feel like all we do is fight lately. I don’t even know how to get us back to being good at this point since it has been so long that we just aren’t “good.” We have one child who’s in the toddler years. I work full time and so does he. I do everything from taking our daughter to school, picking her up, clean, cook every night, laundry, dog related duties, etc. He helps out, sometimes, mainly only when he’s asked. I will say he’s amazing with our child once he’s home. He plays with her, teaches her, and loves her. He use to be amazing with me too.... WE were amazing together. Sometimes I feel like I must be the problem because I’m the only one who’s ever upset with things....

I been married about a year and I'm already just about ready to throw in the flag. No matter what I do it's never right and it's just to many arguments. Most of them start just because I didn't do something my wife says do immediately after her saying it. I'm only 23 and if I wanted to be told what to do all the time I might as well live my parents, and they didn't even trip as much as she does. Submitted May 01, 2019 at 02:20PM I been married about a year and I'm already just about ready to throw in the flag. No matter what I do it's never right and it's just to many arguments. Most of them start just because I didn't do something my wife says do immediately after her saying it. I'm only 23 and if I wanted to be told what to do all the time I might as well live my parents, and they didn't even trip as much as she does.

Hey all. So, my husband used to work 20 minutes from home- home by 3pm, but due to an impending plant closure, was transferred 1-1.5 hours away 5 or 6 days a week, on third shift. We are planning to move closer to work after the school year ends to lessen commute, but until then... ​ We have kids in all stages, so thankfully we have built in babysitters, but the once a week with him either falling asleep or up all night just isn't working. It's so incredibly lonely. He leaves after the kids are in bed and sleeps either until dinner, or later, depending on how late he stays up in the morning. It's just myself and the toddler most of the day, then me and kids all evening. On the days he's home, I get so excited to go to bed with him/wake up next to him to prevent a deadbedroom, but I end up going to bed alone, or he gets up in the middle of the night because he can't sleep (a lot of times, it's both). Needless to say, sex is rare these days as well. I am incred...