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/u/Shootthemoon4 on Was I heterophobic by saying "ew" after seeing a couple kissing?

Any person who says hetero phobic, makes me cringe deeply. Your friend ever watch her parents make out? Well, if she can imagine that and get grossed out that’s what that feels to you. November 15, 2023 at 11:09PM

How to know when a guy likes you?

How do you (guys) show you like a girl?? Or find her attractive at least? Submitted November 15, 2023 at 12:12AM How do you (guys) show you like a girl?? Or find her attractive at least?

Different financial situations.

I've (M39) been in the situation a few times where I meet someone, usually online, and they're nice, I like them, but we're not really on the same page with some things, namely goals and finances. I'm not rich and money isn't everything, but it is important. I've worked hard to get to this point and looking for the same, and someone around my age should kinda have things together by now. (I'd like to buy a house and maybe have kids eventually, and I'd never make it happen on my own.) I feel a little guilty turning them down, but I guess maybe we're not compatible? Submitted November 15, 2023 at 12:14AM I've (M39) been in the situation a few times where I meet someone, usually online, and they're nice, I like them, but we're not really on the same page with some things, namely goals and finances. I'm not rich and money isn't everything, but it is important. I've worked hard to get to this point and looking for the same, ...

Not sure how to Properly communicate with her

So Im talking to this girl for a moment and I really like her. we constantly run into issues her schedule. Shes either working 60hrs a week overtime, taking care of her kids and or family. When shes not doing that she is slseping or trying to sleep through her insomnia. She says she dosent date cause shes busy which i completely understand. Now the main point. She dosent talk on the phone alot and she hates texting. Whenever we Text I feel im caring the conversation or choosing diffrent subject and it gets shot down left and right. Or she replies very dry. Again she dosent like texting but i barely have any other way of communicating with her. When we speak on the phone we communicate very well and its exciting. But that rarely happens Im not sure what to do to effectively talk with her. I honestly dont like texting also cause of miscomunication that tends to happen through text but its the only thing she seems to be activly willing to do 😟😟 Submitted November 14, 2023 at 12:1...

I’ve made a “plan” to get the guy.

So as I was saying, I (F19) am EXTREMELY attracted to this boy (M21) his personality & looks, he has a lovely family connection etc. we don’t talk that much purely because I don’t want him to see me face to face yet, my selfies online look quite different to me (I don’t photoshop I just know my angles) I’m currently losing weight and have about another 4.7stone to lose, from losing a drastic amount of weight already (5.10stone) my breasts, arms& stomach is quite saggy, and I hate it myself, so I’m planning a mummy makeover (breasts, tummy tuck& arm lift) ideally I’d like to meet him once all my surgeries are done and he can see the real me, because I think getting these will make me much more confident & comfortable with myself, I won’t be as shy& awkward. Anyway, but because we don’t talk much at all, I’m scared he will get a girlfriend and if he does fair dos, I just know my mentality & humour is so similar to his and we would get on like a house on fire. I f...

Ghosting

The last time I saw this man, he made me breakfast in bed. We hadn’t slept together but we just enjoyed our time together and I slept over for the second weekend in a row. He met my friends the weekend before. He said he liked me this past weekend and then out of no where I don’t hear from him in 6 days. He has been consistent for the past 2 months and then just nothing. No reply to three messages the last 6 days. He’s 31 and I’m 28. I’m just so confused because from his actions it felt right and going well. What the fuck happened? We had so many similarities and interest. Submitted November 12, 2023 at 12:10AM The last time I saw this man, he made me breakfast in bed. We hadn’t slept together but we just enjoyed our time together and I slept over for the second weekend in a row. He met my friends the weekend before. He said he liked me this past weekend and then out of no where I don’t hear from him in 6 days. He has been consistent for the past 2 months and then just nothing. ...

Got rejected because I got the covid vaccine

Everything was going great with this one women until she asked if I was vaccinated. She replied I'm not, and unmatched me. We were just about to make plans. This seems so ridiculous to me, is this the new normal? Submitted November 11, 2023 at 12:17AM Everything was going great with this one women until she asked if I was vaccinated. She replied I'm not, and unmatched me. We were just about to make plans.This seems so ridiculous to me, is this the new normal?