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/u/Kaymish_ on What are your thoughts on The Big Bang Theory (or Young Sheldon)?

It's just a horrible show. It uses cruel "humour" to target anyone who is not the ideal "normal" person. I am one of those people who likes comics and star trek, and the absurd caricature was really quite upsetting. October 09, 2023 at 11:40PM

/u/Haunting-Truck7987 on Non-monogamy for asexuals

I'm presuming so but have no first hand knowledge. October 09, 2023 at 11:35PM

/u/Bob_N_162 on Do some ace people watch p0rn?(maybe nsfw)

Crap, wanna trade for Walt Disney's? The cia are on my tail already October 09, 2023 at 11:30PM

/u/TrebleBass0528 on Why is it that everything is about sex nowadays?

Always has been. I vented this to my uncle like 12 years ago and he told me that things were very much sexualized since before I was born, it's just more visible now because of social media. October 09, 2023 at 11:30PM

/u/SmadaSlaguod on Non-monogamy for asexuals

Is the other marriage also open, orrrr... October 09, 2023 at 11:29PM

/u/Bob_N_162 on Do some ace people watch p0rn?(maybe nsfw)

O okay October 09, 2023 at 11:27PM

I (25M) have become self destructive when things start to get serious. How to stop this? Think I know the why but feel free to add other thoughts.

I've (25M) taken a break from dating, not tried anything in over 1yr till recently. Reason being I'm pretty self destructive in the sense that at first it's all good but as soon as it starts to get more serious (going from casual dating/hanging out to starting an actual relationship) I kinda shut down, stop being interested in hangout with them/when I do find it very draining and kindo of go in a state of being very tired/lethargic/unmotivated. But only when I'm around them. Not a conscious thing, might even be initially excited that its getting more serious but then soon after (like a few days/week later) one day I just wake up and feel like that and then that's pretty much it. Thought taking a break would fix it (and I know it's cruel to the other person to try anyway knowing how I end up so didn't want to lead anyone on) but after casually talking to some people I stop (like within a couple of days of talking to them) because that "state" end...