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Girls always stop talking/unmatch when I ask to meet for drinks?

I try to have a bit of back and forth with girls the first few messages and then ask them out, but recently all of them have just ghosted me or unmatched when I do. But I see people on reddit saying they want to meet asap and not be penpals etc, so I'm confused what is happening. I'm using the apps in the UK btw if there's a cultural difference or something compared to US apps Submitted July 27, 2023 at 12:16AM I try to have a bit of back and forth with girls the first few messages and then ask them out, but recently all of them have just ghosted me or unmatched when I do. But I see people on reddit saying they want to meet asap and not be penpals etc, so I'm confused what is happening.I'm using the apps in the UK btw if there's a cultural difference or something compared to US apps

Struggling with comparing new girlfriend to ex-when to give it time and when to break it off?

I’m 23, I got in my first relationship about a year ago with this girl I met online. She was very funny and opinionated which was really attractive to me. We could laugh and talk for forever about simple things, spending time with her was always so fun and exciting. She broke up with me after about six months for unrelated commitment issues that didn’t have much to do with how we meshed as individuals. I was really happy with her so I was pretty bummed about the breakup. I remained close friends with her after the breakup for a few months which I regret, as it hasn’t helped me in getting over her if I’m being 100% honest with myself. A couple months ago I stopped reaching out to her when I was getting more serious with my girlfriend. About 3 months ago, I met my current girlfriend. She has a lot of great qualities. she’s kind, very loyal to her close friends and family, loves to laugh and smile. I’m very attracted to her physically. But she is so so different from my previous girlfri...

/u/MadWhisky on Is it possible to become asexual or is it something you are born with?

OP is probably a frustrated incel 💀 July 24, 2023 at 11:42PM

/u/TheBlob__ on As people not particularly devoted to coitus, it sure does take precedent on the front page. How about we share some of the things we are interested in instead?

I live and breathe music, and I’m interested in practically any subject you throw at me. Biology? Fascinating. Etymology? Fascinating. History, math, astronomy? I could marry them. I love reading, I love animals of almost every kind, but people and social things are one of my weak points. July 23, 2023 at 11:10PM

/u/beebrainbzzz on As people not particularly devoted to coitus, it sure does take precedent on the front page. How about we share some of the things we are interested in instead?

20f, I like antiquing/thrifting, I collect lots of things like old cameras, vinyl records, rocks/gems and lots of little trinkets. I like to press flowers and leaves, identify them and display them in a photo album. I also like to send postcards, there’s a cool website called postcrossing where you can send postcards to random people and get postcards sent back to you. July 23, 2023 at 11:10PM

/u/Spriiite_wastaken on What is aplatonic?

THAT'S WHAT THAT IS?? THAT'S A THING?? HOLY FUCK July 22, 2023 at 11:25PM

/u/beebrainbzzz on Is it unrealistic for me to want a relationship with another asexual?

I’m heteromantic but if you’d like to chat feel free to message me! :) July 21, 2023 at 11:28PM